My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year or so and things were going very well between us. However, about a month ago, she started acting really odd. She stopped calling me frequently and rarely returned my calls. She also just kinda gave up with try to go out (We dont live together -- both 20 in different universities). Any time plans were made, she blew them off and she stopped making them entirely. I thought it may have been that she was just really stressed from school (She's an honest person, so I had no reason to suspect anything) and some family problems she was having at the time. Well, last night she told me over msn what was actually going on. Apparently some guy at her school had been constantly hitting on her starting about a month ago. Even after she told him about me, he persisted. She told me she had been 'running' and trying to avoid him. However, she told me that by running she actually gave importance to the situation and let the guy get to her. She told me, during the last month she felt lost and only recently felt found. Apprently the guy is becoming an important person in her life. She had been really confused and that was she stopped talking to me actively and avoiding me. Nothing has happened between them, but I'm really concerned this might be fatal for our relationship. She has been avoiding me because of him, so I take it she is developing feelings for him. I've got no idea about what to do now. I love her, so I want to try and work thru this with her but at the same time, I've been very angry and very hurt by this. So now im sitting here with a frown on my face and not even the slightest clue about what to do. Any advice would be really appriciated.