Ok so I’ll start from the very beginning of all this mess I’ve gotten myself into. It started about the first week in December, I use an internet site to meet people the way it works you click yes to people you would like to meet but you don’t get to meet them unless they are browsing through pictures and click yes to you too. Anyways I used this site mostly just for trying to meet friends before I landed in college up in Vancouver; I had no intention of ever meeting or getting a girlfriend out of it. Sure it popped in my head here and there but I really had no want or need. Whenever you get a new match it emails you so I normally send them my msn name or whatever just to chat ect.. Well three weeks ago I start talking with this girl here is the situation. I’m 19 first year in college, she’s 17 and 11th Grade. Well we hit it off well on msn not in the sense the second I met her I was considering anything I mean just conversation flowed naturally easy and well. We talked every night for about a week for hours at least 2-3 hours and started to use our webcams at this point I find out she has an ex boyfriend of 1 year that she recently broke up with ( about a month and a half ). Well one night we were talking on msn about something crazy I really forget what and she brought up out of the blue “I’m starting to fall for someone I really don’t know and its kind of weird”.. Well long / awkward silence story short I asked her if it was me and she said yes. That night she gave me her phone number and wanted me to call so of course I did, from this point on we talked on the phone for the most part roughly 1-3 hours a night for a week. During one of the phone calls she had to go because she had a call waiting, I said goodnight and whatever and didn’t really matter.. Well it was her EX and she called me back and was all upset and stuff about how to get him to stop calling her and thinking about her and crap like that. I sorta hinted to a few things like maybe get a new boyfriend or whatever and she was saying she wasn’t just gonna go pick up some random dude ect.. at this time I’m finally considering asking this girl out. But I didn’t tell her this night I sorta just listened and told her whatever she did don’t go back with the EX mainly cause it just never works. Well we both went to sleep then she called back AGAIN. So we talk about random stuff and go to sleep for good that night. I finally met her that weekend ( 2 weeks after we met online ) it was short and at her work so we didn’t do anything but talk really.. I was gonna give her a hug but not infront of her co workers.. I felt it went ok and well it obviously spells out a few things you don’t get in meeting online, she wasn’t as good looking as I thought but it didn’t really bother me.. what she thought of me I have no idea. We talked on the phone every night for another week, I finally asked her out and she said maybe but didn’t know if she’d be able to before I left for the holidays because she had a pretty busy schedule ect.. Well come closer to Last Monday when I had asked her on the date I sorta asked if she really wanted to go or not and just be straight with me if she’s not interested just say so cause I don’t want my head getting played with here. She gave me the she didn’t really know, has feelings for me, but isn’t ready for another boyfriend for atleast a month and was scared in dating me if it got serious since I’m not from Canada me moving away and stuff. I didn’t say much I wasn’t going to try and make myself sound like god in that situation, well she asked me to so I basically told her if I had met anyone really important in my life I’d probably not leave then whether it be you or someone else.. And my chances of getting a job in Vancouver after a year or two of school is decent after that I left it open ..Well I left for the holidays and we’re still talking on the phone easily just like before nothing awkward or anything. Other information, she’s talked to her friends and mom about me a lot.. I mean her mom knows who my dad is and she’s talked to my dad on msn as well ( she wanted to… ) I know all her friends now for the most part and they all know / have seen me ). CLIFFS: - Met girl online - Girl says she likes me ( before we met in person ) - Girl then says she isn’t ready for a boyfriend after we meet in person but we still talk every night for hours… - Girls mom and friends all know me / my background basically a lot about me yet I’ve never met any of them except by the webcam. My question for offtopic is where should I stand on this, I’m thinking of just playing the friend after I get back and if something happens out of it then so be it.. or should I still ask her on that date or completely drop everything all together?