I'm trying to grow my hair out long and the last time i cut it was in early july when i shaved it with a #2 guard. I haven't touched it since. Right now its getting really UGLY. I thought it would get better as time went on but now the back flairing out, looking almost like a mullet, the sides completely cover my ears and it looks ridiculous when i try to push it behind my ears but the top of the hair isn't long enough to do anything but lay foward. it looks stupid and i want to do something about it but i dont know what. I've been told not to do anything but i've also been told to trim up the sides to let the top get longer and catch up to the sides and back. I was thinking about get it cut like Brad Pitt had his in fight club. the top real long but the sides short so i can actually style it a bit and still be working towards getting long hair. can anyone help?