Ok having some trouble with the girlfriend. I'll give you a little background before I get to the issue. I hooked up with this girl about 10 years ago. Started talking when I was dating a girl in a long distance relationship. She knew I had a girlfriend and we were going to see where things went. We hung out all the time for a month or two and slept together 3 times. While she blew me in to my gf at the time and I promptly cut her off after that. Fast forward 9 years and she ran into a friend of mine and wanted to hang out again. We talked a few times but never got together. About a year after that she called me out of the blue. She wanted to hang. We hung out and things were great. Ended up talking every night for about 2 months then made it official. So we have talked for 2 months and dated for 2 at this point. She has an apartment with her ex that she was not staying at but her sister is in town for 7 weeks and she started staying there again. At first I didnt care but when our talk/text time went down to 5 minutes here and there compared to hours at a time before I started getting insecure. She reassured me about 10 different times nothing was going on and she basiclly hates the guy as they argue all the time. We go camping with her family for 3 days, (thats the most time we spent together as we would see each other on the weekend maybe once and maybe once during the week. She lives 20 minutes away and has a 6 y/o son) We get back from camping and had a blast. While that weekend we didnt hang out. Fast forward 3 weeks and we were still talking everyday and telling each other we loved each other. While havent seen her since we went camping. Now this girl is always sick with something and has major stress in her life right now. She told me on monday she didnt have time for a relationship with anyone right now. She said maybe we should stop seeing each other and I asked is that what she wants she says no and tells me I will call you tomorrow. I stopped calling her after that. She waited 2 days texted me she missed me and is happy with me but there is just alot going on in her life. The next day she does the same and is telling me she has something to tell me but not in texts and she loved me more then I know but things are fucked up for her right now. Well she tells me she will call friday and I get no call. I text her saying is everything is ok and she says yes. I sent her flowers and they got delivered on friday. No call or text saying thank you. I call on saturday and asked if she got them and she says yes. Well I hear her ex bf in thee background. Now he is still close with the family but I guess he showed up on his own. I got pissed and she told me she would cll when she got back. Well I get a text from her but it was her ex saying he was going to try and work things out with her but she doesnt know yet. I left a vm on her phone telling her it was fucked up what was going on and she texted back she was not getting back with him. Didnt hear from her yesterday and so I called to see what she had to tell me and she was sick and laying down and didnt want to talk. So here I am wondering what I should do. DO I just wait for her to contact me and tell me whats up with us. Do I call her again once today? I do love the girl but its killing me as I have no idea whats going on with us. I want closure if thats whats going on.