Just a little background. Shes 25, I just turned 23 and she has a full time job. We've been hanging out over the summer pretty regularly and then sometime last week her aunt died. She was kinda close to her (her aunt lived in another state though) and ever since shes been acting WEIRD. Ditching me (at least in my mind), acting very distant, just sounding plain weird on the phone. To the point its like I dont even wanna talk to you if your gonna be this way. Im no jerk, I comforted her when this happened. Spent a long time just talking, hugging, etc...What a good guy/anyone should do in that type of situation ya know? Well heres the e-mail. hey you. I am so sorry about the way Ive been acting. I guess Im a mixture of emotional and confused right now. I honestly don't know what I want. It's time for the yucky regular schedule. I shouldnt say that becasue I absolutely LOVE my job during the year but I know its going to effect us. I know you said you were kinda worried about it too. I just kinda wanna take things slower. I AM NOT SAYING I DONT WANT TO KEEP DOING WHAT WE"RE DOING! I had to put that in caps because for some reason I think you will believe me more if I did that. You are amazing and make me feel completely myself and I love being with you. I just have other things i need to worry about at the same time. That's all. I just want to be able to do everything as good as I usually do. Maybe I'm being confusing but I think Im getting too wrapped up in the whole relationship thing and not enough with everything else. Im also sorry that I wrote this but I have been wanting to talk to you and I can't keep it in anymore. So hopefully you aren't too mad at me for being a crazy girl and you understand what Im saying. So I do have class tonight 6-10pm. BLOWS! But I am going to call you when I get out and we are going to talk tonight. I feel kinda 12 years old that I just typed this all too you but It needed to be said and your sleeping right now. Anyways thank you for dealing with me lately and Im sorry and I really wanna see you. Real bad. This fucking e-mail set off this huge blaring alarm in my head. My last serious gf had the almost same convo with me a little bit before we broke up and everything broke down. It really set off an alarm guys, what is going on?? I have NO idea.