Hey Vag! So I need some advice regarding a situation that I'm not directly involved in. My brother and I have never really gotten along, he's kind of the black sheep of the family. But for the past 3 or 4 years, his personality has really been improving. His power trip has gone away, he's started being NICE, compassionate, helpful.... basically a completely different person than he was when we were growing up together. Most of these changes I can attribute to his girlfriend, who I became very close with. I love this girl. She and my brother had been talking about getting married, and I was excited to finally have a normal relationship with my brother and now a sister too! She was also planning on moving in with my brother this last week. She found some horrible things on his computer, including pictures of him having sex with other girls which were dated, so she knew that they were taken when they were together. She also found conversations with girls that he had saved about how great in bed he was, and hundreds of pictures of girls, some of which had been saved from facebook, some which had been sent to him because they were naked/in underwear. He even signed up for an online dating site, requesting as much casual sex as possible. So basically, he's been cheating on her throughout their entire relationship. It's pretty sickening. Our entire family is thoroughly distraught, and disgusted with my brother. His poor ex now has nowhere to live, and no job since she was waiting for him to find a job somewhere in CA and she would get one there too. Now she's flying back to Indiana to live with her parents, heart broken and completely mindfucked. She emailed me asking me to go on his computer and delete the folder of HER pictures, which was buried among the other folders of girls. My brother posts on forums online, and she's concerned that he'll post these pictures or show them to other people. I completely understand this, but it puts me in a tight spot. I totally side with her, and I understand why she would want to have these pictures deleted, because if I were in her shoes I would too. I think any woman would after finding out their soon to be fiance was a completely different person than they had thought. On the other hand, I don't want to invade my brother's privacy regardless of my impression of him right now. I've been working so hard to improve our relationship, and this could possibly jeopardize it if he found out I did this. I don't know what to do! HALP! PS- sorry for the novel.