LGBT Need Advice

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  1. Matrixballer04

    Matrixballer04 New Member

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    Hey guys (and gals). I come to you guys for advice on my life and the situation I am in right now.

    I have a lot of questions for you all, and I hope I can get some good answers.

    First off, I would like to say that I am bisexual. I am attracted to both men and women. But as of lately, when I think of a woman in any sexual way, I'm just like "...eh...". But when I think of a guy, I get very turned on. Now, don't get me wrong. I am still very attracted to women and get sexually aroused, but just not as much as I do when I'm thinking about a guy. I enjoy watching any kind of porn, as long as a guy is involved. I can't stand watching a video where it is just a woman or lesbians. Maybe it's just because it's just so taboo to be atracted to men.

    I have the type of personality that I will do anything and everything opposite of everyone else just to be different. Can this affect my sexual preferences too? I mean, I am truly attracted to the opposite sex, not just because I want to be different.

    But another problem I have is with one friend. I cannot for the life of me tell if he is attracted to me. Here's how the situations usually work out.

    I go over to his house and we hang out and just do whatever, then when we get tired, I sleep in the same bed as him. He only has one place to sleep in his room, and I'd rather sleep in his bed with him than on the floor. But that's the way it is with all of his friends. They all sleep in the same bed with him. Plus, I have known him for years.

    But, when we are lying in bed, we lie opposite of each other. Parallel but with my feet at his head and his feet at my head. But, all the time I notice him doing stuff "gay" to me. Like he will cop my nuts when I'm just hanging out in his room, or when we are lying in bed he will get his hand really close to my dick and I keep pushing him away because I am afraid he will discover my erection. :mamoru: Or if we are just sitting and playing video games, he will do the whole "nervous game" thing to me and I just look at him and say "That doesn't bother me in the least bit" and he keeps gettin closer so I just knock his hand away.

    Now he has told me before that he was homophobic and I have done some pretty gay stuff to him. As in copping his nuts, or smacking/grabbing his ass, playing with his nipples, stuff like that.

    I just need help on the situation on what I could do to find out if he was really bi or gay. He does have a girlfriend at the moment so....

    But any advice on this.

    But one thing I wish I could do is just come out and say "Hey...guess what? I'm bisexual." But if I do that I don't want it to be awkward for us. Like we don't hang out anymore or something like that.

    IDK, I just think about shit too much.

    But please help me out in my situation.

    Thanks
    -Matt
     
  2. novo

    novo Pokey Man OT Supporter

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    That sounds hot.

    Here's what you do, next time you're lying in bed with him and he keeps pushing his hand toward your dick, don't stop him!

    let him find your erection, I think that will say everything you need to say.
    how old are you btw?
     
  3. Matrixballer04

    Matrixballer04 New Member

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    That sounds like a plan. I kind of did plan on doing that the next time I stayed with him. I even shaved my pubes too...lol

    My plan though was if he tried it again, was to unzip my pants and just pull my dick out and put it in his hand and see what he did. It could either lead to him playing with it or him going "Wtf!?" to which I would reply "I told ya to stop..."

    lol

    But yea...I am 18 btw.
     
  4. Matitulo

    Matitulo If sexy never left then why is everybody on my shi

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    I need pics to correctly assess the situation.
     
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    he sounds like my ex :/ the whoe...doing gay stuff but then saying he's homophobic thing. i'd avoid at all costs, because they'll never come out for you
     
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    +1
     
  7. Kitler

    Kitler Fabulously Gay

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    X1
     
  8. Naturally Baked

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    Keep us updated :)
     
  9. Matrixballer04

    Matrixballer04 New Member

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    You guys need pictures of what, exactly :squint:
     
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    Naturally Baked Active Member

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    you and said friend and you can pm me any other pictures you feel might help the evaluation
     
  11. Bib-Lettuce

    Bib-Lettuce New Member

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    Let him touch it when you're not hard? Least that way he's making the bigger move and see where it goes from there
     
  12. novo

    novo Pokey Man OT Supporter

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    exactly ;)

    +1 for pics
     
  13. RyRy

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    Pics in pics thread pls, it's part of being a newb around here you just have to do it and get it over with! :x: (Need them hosted? www.aww-kittah-aww.com ) Also I hope that things work out for you and this guy! Keep us updated!
     
  14. Matrixballer04

    Matrixballer04 New Member

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    I would get some pictures, but I can't find my camera ATM....I promise I will get some soon though:wavey:
     

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