I've got a big problem with being shy. I'm actually not even too sure if thats the right word for this, but its something thats bothering me. I've never screwed before, and up until recently never done anything physical with a woman. I started hanging out with someone who I'd admired for so long and things were going great. I've been fine with, and would even say I'm comfortable with fingering her at this point. She's jerked me off once and that went fine too. But I just cant seem to get past that. When I know the moment would be right to take it to the next level and fuck, I just sorta go dumb and freeze up and not do anything. Is it because I've never fucked before, and I really just don't know what to do and what actions to take? If so, someone please clue me in, I feel really pathetic right here. I know the whole physical side of it, but when its time for the pants to come off I'm clueless. Its easier if were already fucking around with our hands because the pants are off already you know, but when were fully clothed, where do you go from there? I sincerely hope nobody makes fun. You were all once here... okay maybe not dug as deep in a hole as I am but still. All advice is appreciated. I hate to turn to OT for things like this, but she WAS my advice girl, and where do you turn when your advice girl is the one you need advice on?