Of the few girls that I've been with, none of them have really been able to please me sexually. At first I thought that I wasnt that attracted to them and thats why it didnt work out physically, but this has happened with multiple girls. When were in bed and kissing, I get hard pretty quickly. I've never received great head from a girl. I still stay hard but its not stimulating at all (I'm not even close to coming). Sex itself is a little better, but still not very stimulating. Girls tell me that they're sore the next day and that I last too long, and I absolutely agree. The only person that can really get me off is myself. What's wrong here? Have I just not found the right person yet or is it me? I try fantasizing during sex, but that doesnt work, so I dunno. I think it may have something to do with porn. I about once a day to porn. That's really the only time I'm turned on. I'm thinking that I'm conditioned to think sex is just like porn (oral, intercourse, guys jerks himself off at the end, etc...) Any advice?