LGBT Name one thing you LIKE about being gay...

Discussion in 'Lifestyle' started by Pen Is Mightier, Nov 10, 2008.

  1. Because apparently we are a bunch of depressing people, name one thing you LIKE about being gay/coming out.

    I'm glad I came out because I met the best person in my life. :) I also realized what it feels like to love somebody. Before I would date girls but I never loved them, I barely even liked them. I just did it because everyone else was so I thought it was normal. I love my boy. Some days I could easily spend all day in bed together just talking and being together...I could never say that before for anyone in my life. :)
     
  2. dallasfan824

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    I have far more fun being gay than straight. The sex is a hundred fold better. The gay people I know seem to be nicer than the str8 ones. i am way happier accepting myself as gay then trying to be str8. Novo said I was good looking when he met me IRL.

    Oops that was more than one.
     
  3. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    I like that I am aware of my body, and how to stimulate the prostate to pleasure it. I like that sex is readily available. Petty feral infighting aside, I like our community; like the royal courts of past kingdoms, yes there are cat fights, politics, and manipulations but the parties are amazing and when we align on something we do it with a fury! I like that if I go crazy and show out, I have the 'queen' card to play in excuse of my behavior (sad, but true). I like my avant-garde fashion options. I like my relationship with my mother, sisters, and lots of other women. I like that being the quintessential minority has taught me perseverance. Emotional stress aside, I like that my childhood was like fag bootcamp, teaching me how to deal with bullies, sharpening my tongue, and instilling in me the confidence to do whatever I want.
     
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    XPX New Member

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    So far I hate being gay...but....that will probably change sooner or later :hs:

    but this:

    Even if he doesn't love me back I finally know I do have feelings, I feel alive and I know I care about others...
     
  5. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    that's an odd question.

    Being gay is not something I like or dislike about myself. It's just a part of myself... a statistic... like my height or hair color.
     
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    novo Pokey Man OT Supporter

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    your pics don't do you justice :o
     
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    novo Pokey Man OT Supporter

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    one thing i like about being gay is feeling of community.

    i think in America, most people lose this feeling because of our vastness and huge population.
    but in "queer nation" the numbers are so relatively small yet everyone is networked together that you actually get a feeling of family or a tribal connection.

    instead of the term "six degrees of separation", with gays it's more like 3 degrees.
     
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  9. lol i can agree with that one. :bowrofl:
     
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    geniks king of the hill

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    The parties. Queers know how to party.
     
  11. My BFF, a lesbian girl, DEFINITELY knows how to party haha. She can drink too...she gives me a run for my money and I'm no light weight. :eek4:
     
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    novo Pokey Man OT Supporter

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    having friends over for a party and having them actually respect my place.

    straights just tear everything up lol
     
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    cumshots :drool:
     
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    I'm a pretty normal-acting masculine guy, so when I finally come out to people, they tend to be surprised. After a while, they also tend to realize that most homosexuals aren't like the mental image they have of gay people and are just normal people trying to live normal lives, and as a result, they tend to become much more progressive. A few of my friends were pretty homophobic years ago, and now they are pretty vocal about rights for homosexuals.

    i guess i like that my gayness helps facilitate the process of understanding and openness.
     
  18. cum shot in the butt ftw. :bowdown: :bowdown: i dont think anything beats that.
     
  19. Naturally Baked

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    :)

    good post...so far the people ive told that im gay have all been shocked because i dont "act gay" :dunno:

    the guy im starting to "date" says that im "all guy" lol
     
  20. Sam Gamgee

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    That "normal-acting" phrase pisses me off.

    I'm normal acting for me... My swishy friend is normal-acting for him

    Why is somebody who has a lisp abnormal? God, sometimes I hate that we have to put our own gay brothers and sisters in boxes like this.
     
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    yea I know...Never said I agreed but its just what people tell me. I dont fit many of the gay stereotypes other then Im a huge flamer when it comes to my wardrobe :cool:
     
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    :bowrofl:
     
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    geniks king of the hill

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    rimming somebody who is clean and attractive... following some hard core fucking.

    i've only done that to somebody once (takes a lot of trust for me).. it was... fun =]
     
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    I want to see in person... :naughty:

    :drool:

    Very true!
     
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    pp's and butts... and pp's in butts.
    :big grin:
    _d
     

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