LGBT Name one thing you dislike about being gay...

Discussion in 'Lifestyle' started by Pen Is Mightier, Nov 9, 2008.

  1. I know we usually are all happy happy joy joy in here, but obviously, we are different. With being different comes different hardships.

    Name one thing that you dislike about being gay.


    For me...not being able to have children. One day I'd want to have a child or maybe two with whomever I settle down with. Physically, that's impossible obviously, but then there is always surrogacy and things of that nature. But even then, I don't know if I could have a child because I don't know if I could withstand seeing my child in pain after they were made fun of or something because they have two fathers. I hope this world changes in the future where it is fine to be gay and have a child, but in this day and age it is frowned upon by many still.
     
  2. novo

    novo Pokey Man OT Supporter

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    x2
     
  4. x3

    :mad:
     
  5. Bib-Lettuce

    Bib-Lettuce New Member

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    Just one? Well the one at the moment that's giving me the most grief is how hard it is to find a partner.
     
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    Not easily finding noods of Novo. :(

    Seriously though. I am most soured with how our sub-culture tends to be more tight knit then standard. Once someone does something or pisses someone off or whatever, the gossip spreads like wildfire and EVERYONE knows in about .002 seconds.

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    Maybe I will soon have no dislikes.
     
  7. Naturally Baked

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    being gay... :wtc:

    as bad as that sounds, as far as im concerned right now...I just wish I was "normal"

    I hate the whole fact I have to come out to my parents, and disappoint them, and yes tehy will be. I hate the fact that I might lose friends who I like, when yes, maybe they "arent really my friends then" but they are my friends now. I hate hte fact that I have to be different while other people are "normal". I hate the fact that this society cant just get past the fact that there are other types of people in the world who DIDNT choose the way they are.

    So yeah, I hate being gay...but the fact is I am so I am going to deal with it.

    <3 you guys :hs:
     
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    Other peoples ignorance towards something they'll never understand!
     
  9. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    The injustice of heteronormativity. It simply isn't fair that I'm expected to be straight. It isn't like I choose to be queer, it just simply is what it is. Why do I have to explain that to every new person that I meet??

    It is almost easier to queen it up, as at least then you won't have to do the awkward conversation...
     
  10. camarosrool

    camarosrool yes i am

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    i actually dont have any major complaints

    im pretty happy
     
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    The obsession with youth. If you are over 35 you might as well be dead to most of the gay community.

    Also, the proliferation of meth.
     
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    well thank god you're hot :p
     
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    awww <3333
     
  14. novo

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    the first part is def not true when it comes to the bears, most of the guys out at the bars i go to are usually at LEAST 35.
    also i personally find older men very attractive.

    but the meth thing...yeah. that sucks.
     
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    I remember. I saw you creepin back up those stairs from the basement:rofl:
     
  16. geniks

    geniks king of the hill

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    I like the sex :o
     
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    elevator The tenants think it's wonderful! ヽ(´ OT Supporter

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    finding gay friends/partners
    having to come out
    being unequally treated because of something I had no choice on

    take your pick
     
  18. geniks

    geniks king of the hill

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    I like older guys, hmmm...
     
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  20. Matitulo

    Matitulo If sexy never left then why is everybody on my shi

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    Being superior to most heterosexuals, but still feeling inferior.
     
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    wow, you guys are depressing.
     
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    geniks king of the hill

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    agreed, we should make a thread "what do you like about being gay"?
     
  23. Matitulo

    Matitulo If sexy never left then why is everybody on my shi

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    so do it? :dunno:
     
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    Yeah I hate that, I've read some nasty shit people have been saying that sunk me into a really bad depression and I can't shake it, even though I know I'm superior I just don't believe it. I keep convincing myself that I'm just scared they're right and I'm just weak-mined, easily influenced and the people who said it are just so convincing, which is all true but it doesn't help. I still feel I'm so gut-wrenchingly angry because I know they're right, kind of like how a closeted gay will exaggerate or overreact because he doesn't want to accept the truth
     
  25. You shouldn't hate all gays because one gay says something you disagree with. If one white person shoots a black person, should every black person hate every white person? Same idea.

    What I assume he meant to say was he feels like has accomplished a lot in life, but still feels inferior because of how he is treated or feels inside.
     

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