SRS MySpace-In a Relationship v. Single

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  1. moni8a

    moni8a New Member

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    Why do you think my boyfriend of over a year wont change his status to In a Relationship? He has me as his #1 on his Top 8 and has pictures of me all over his profile. Ive asked him to change it and he says he doesn't feel like it. Its getting really annoying that my friends keep asking me why he doesnt change it. What do you think?? Do people really look at that?? :confused:
     
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    Good luck in your "relationship" :ugh:
     
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    that seems like a very petty thing to get upset over. Do people really put that much credit/thought into their myspace webpages? :uh:
     
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    Yeah I know its very minor...but its just been bothering me lately....like I live on myspace and he does too so...I dunno I guess Im just overexaggerating!
     
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    i fear for the future
     
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    I think the biggest problem is the fact you care about what he has on his myspace. Honestly, it's a bit of text on a website known for pure stupidity.
     
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    people interpret the status of "single" different ways. your picture is already all over his myspace, so it's not like he's trying to hide you from the world. i pray you can trust him outside of the internet.

    besides, it's just a stupid website. time to log off from it.
     
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    if he's getting any attention from other females, then he's doing it for attention.

    but it's nothing to worry about.
     
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    the fact that it is a petty thing, and he's resisting might indicate something's up. He could be flirting with other girls and keeping his options open by leaving himself "single"

    my girl told me to change my myspace status even though i never use it anymore. I just did it cuz it was nothing to argue over :dunno:
     
  14. Toasty

    Toasty Naked people have little or no influence on societ

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    Well.... while on one hand I agree a "MySpace" account is a pretty silly thing to worry about. It does send up some kind of alerts when he dismisses your concerns as easily as that. It's a small gesture to signify being unavailable, similar to wearing a ring for engagement albiet not as expensive or lifelong.

    I'd say if it bothers you that much...you should push for it. But be prepared to hear things you might not want to hear...and be ready to make good on any ultimatims you might give him.
     
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    :ugh: this cannot be a serious topic.
     
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    Toasty Naked people have little or no influence on societ

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    Guess it might be if you're in highschool maybe ;)
     
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    Genocide Why does my W look like a peace sign?!

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    Wow...just wow.
     
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    I'm not even going to touch this. I used to care about stupidspace and I'm fucking dissapointed in myself for it. I refuse to visit that site or my stupidspace. That site is a joke and for you to ask this queston to me I feel even worse as if I havent helped the future generation realize how much trash is on that dumphole.
     
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    he refuses to change it only because you want him to. he doesn't want to feel like less of a man for giving into you. and if he gives into you he's afraid that you'll think of him as weak and lose respect for him. and by definition "single" simply means unmarried.
     
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    leave urs to single as well
     
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    Its MYSPACE. Who cares? If he wont change it, then he wont. If he was hiding you from the "myspace world" and didnt have you anywhere on it and kept it to single, then maybe you'd have something to worry about. The more you nag about it, the more annoying you'll get to him.
     
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    Tiger8 Just Like Heaven

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    i agree
     
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    i can see where this would stir up questins.. just stay up with his comments and make sure he isnt flirting if not .. its just an ego thing...i agree with the person who said put yourself as single to..
     
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    I'm new to this par tof the forum but...I know the reason why he won't change it.

    He probably gets friend requests daily from single girls, and probably likes the attention. Anyone who has a MySpace account and gets friend requests from attrative opposite sex's, it's a good feeling. I had mine set to Single and used to get requests DAILY from girls. The minute I changed it to "In a Relationship" (as i got into a relationship), I don't think I've gotten ONE friend requests from a girl.
     

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