FRK My wife may have found her boy toy

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  1. carpet muncher

    carpet muncher New Member

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    Took long enough! We've been talking for a while about finding another guy for her. We've done it before but it was a while ago and the search for someone like that is difficult. What are the odds that it seems to have fell into our lap (pun intended) this weekend?

    We met the guy at a club. We were the only ones there in our Halloween costumes and the guy came up to compliment us. He ended up sticking around and chatting with us for a while. My wife and I disappeared for a few and I asked her if she was attracted to him (I could tell she was). We ended up hanging out with him after the club. While we were at his place I brought the idea to him so he'd be in the loop if anything happened...not that night of course but in the future.

    Even though that night did get mildly interesting we'll have to get to know him better before anything really takes off. Wish us luck!!

    To answer the usual first round of questions: no, the guy and I don't touch; no, I don't get jealous; it is not a relationship between them more like a FWB situation between 3 people; yes, we have done this before but it's been a long time.
     
  2. jsx730

    jsx730 If found wandering, send back to FS...

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    Congrats.

    Hopefully it works out good for you guys. It's not easy finding extra partners that fit well without bringing drama with them lol.

    So does the relationship work out the other way? Do you get a girl toy of your own?
     
  3. carpet muncher

    carpet muncher New Member

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    My wife is curious about bringing in another girl but it's the same story...so hard to find the right one. She's never been with a girl before and I was involved with swinging before I met her...this was part of the reason I took the initiative to fulfill her fantasy first...I'd already done a lot of this stuff ;)

    I'm sure it'll happen but it will have to be like this situation where the right person just kinda shows up out of nowhere.
     
  4. Kazzander

    Kazzander I only got this for the search.

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    One word -- Thad's.

    Good for you broham!
     
  5. carpet muncher

    carpet muncher New Member

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    Hey buddy!! Yeah Thad's was a fun time wasn't it?

    Have you had any fun along these lines lately?
     
  6. Bubba Atlantis

    Bubba Atlantis New Member

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    Nicely done!

    Keep us updated :)
     
  7. RougeOgre

    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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    :werd: on the congrats and hmm.... it seems to be a common theme that you find playmates when you aren't looking (or aren't looking too hard).:mamoru:
     
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    Bubba Atlantis New Member

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    totally!

    That is one reason why I have stopped actively looking. Interestingly, since I have stopped, a few things are beginning to present themselves.

    Besides, if you do not actively look, you won't get frustrated by things not working and you will be pleasantly surprised when the situation arises :)

    That is my new philosophy I do believe :mamoru:
     
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    carpet muncher New Member

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    Thanks everyone :)

    I will definitely keep the updates coming. I've read enough threads in this forum I feel like I owe this place one of my own. Also, here's an obligatory pic of the lady and I on the night in question

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  10. luvstar99

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    Sounds like a lot of fun for your wife. Hopefully she enjoys her new boy toy. Keep us updated.
     
  11. dscallaway69

    dscallaway69 New Member

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    good for you guys
     
  12. audrey

    audrey New Member

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    Will you wife play with her new toy privately or do you get to watch? :naughty:
     
  13. why would you want to watch your wife cheat?... just wondering... do you get to fuck other girls?
     
  14. dumb_end_user

    dumb_end_user Sad Gus

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    Dude - Read some of the threads and get a feel for the vibe of this forum. Then and only then should you be stating your uneducated opinion.
     
  15. jsx730

    jsx730 If found wandering, send back to FS...

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    I've learned that if you have to ask this question, you probably won't understand the answer.
     
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    Bubba Atlantis New Member

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    agreed....seems a ban was already done though.

    It is annoying when these people actually speak :(
     
  17. Tehrod

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    no but seriously i brought up a threesome up to my girl and she brought up a foursome and i was like :ugh:
     
  18. Bubba Atlantis

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    foursome is better than threesome....more people.

    I hate when people are hypocrites. You want to fuck around with another woman, but the minute your partner states that they want to play around with a man instead (BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT INTO WOMEN, ONLY YOU ARE!) you get all weired out. WTF?

    Be happy that your partner did not say 'your right, a threesome mmf, would be great. Good idea!' Which btw, should not be a problem as you want a ffm thus you should be okay with a mfm.
     
  19. Jay487

    Jay487 What's Life If You Ain't Enjoyin' It?

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    im just curious about rules with those that have let their woman be with another man (you involved obviously)

    I mean would you require a condom for vaginal sex? What if he came in her? I guess theres certain lines that everyone has but is there a general rule or? To each their own?
     
  20. wrwarwick

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    Def a condom, always play safe.
     
  21. RougeOgre

    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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    It is a "to each his own". For instance, lildevildee and her spouse always use condoms. In our 4some, no one uses them except for anal sex.
     
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    Waitaminute, I don't get that. What's the point in using a condom only for anal? I mean, what if one of the ladies happens to get pregnant? (And what if it turns out the SO wasn't the father of the baby?) What about STDs? Sorry for all the questions, but I'm just curious.
     
  23. THT

    THT The easy way is always mined

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    Is this for cleanliness/clean up purposes?
     
  24. RougeOgre

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    Condom for anal=easy switch to Vag :mamoru:
    No one in our group can reproduce any longer and we have all been tested. We don't play outside our 4some, but if we did then things might be different.
     
  25. Toxica

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    Ahh okay. That makes sense.
     

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