a germaphob. When we started going out she had trouble sharing food and drinks etc, but eventually she got over it, which was actually at the time a huge sign that she liked me. Fast forward to now we've been together for quite some time. On and off of course. Sexually everything is fine, but i feel so incomplete because she doesn't give me bj's. It's not a big deal really, but i can't help but think what i might be missing out on. she tells me she feels kind of bad that she feels incomfortable with it, but i try to reassure her its cool. i feel unjust in pressuring her into doing it. It should be on her own free will not my needling. once a long time ago she almost did it in the shower... but that failed to materialize. teasing sucks she's also scared of anal because she heard it hurts a lot the first time. I don't want her to be in pain either. *sigh* this sucks. seems as tho im missing out and she might be too heh anyways any suggestions? granted she really is quite the germaphob which i can't really relate to, but u take the good with the bad right?