Long story short I ended up with custody of her daughter who is 4. My sister is in a rehab facility and has been there since December. There are a few things that bother me about all of this. It doesnt seem as if they are trying to get her to reconcile with her family. Isnt there a 12 step program with drug addictions like there is for alcohol? She was stealing from the family before she went away and hasnt apologized yet for what she has done but wants to come and stay in our houses for the weekend when she gets a pass. I dont understand how you can hurt your family like that and they assume you can just come on home and not deal with it. After the 8 months or so that she has been there I expected a lot more things to happen than what I have seen. I am really dissapointed and worried about the future of my niece. Whenever anyone tries to call her counselor they arent there and dont call back.. I tried to talk to my sister and she got pissed and hung up on me. With all the sacrifices I have made for her I would expect a little bit of respect from her.