Let me first start off by saying Thank you in advance to anyone who post any advice here. Lately i have had a lot of time to think about my "love life", and i've come to realize a few things. In the past year I haven't made any efforts to find a new girlfriend. I was dating a girl for a little under a year and we broke up around christmas of 06. Anyway, the more i think about it the more i realize a pattern and i need to correct it or at least get some advice about it. The pattern is this, I've come to notice that I tend to get bored of people very fast. I have like no real attention span for new people and especially girls. For example, about 2 months ago i was working at a small store and this girl came in a lot. We would joke and finally one day she asked if i'd like to get coffee sometime. So we exchange numbers and chat on the phone a bit, and pick a date. So we go get coffee everything is fun, we make plans to hangout after that. It was all fun and i was enjoying it and then after a few days of hanging out maybe 2 weeks off and on, I just couldn't stand being around her. The problem is this constantly happens. I notice it more and more, i'll start talking to someone, get kinda close and get feelings. Then i just pull away and let them disappear. I need to figure out how to fix this. I need to know whats wrong with me. I've talked to my older brother about it and my friends and all of them think im crazy. I dont know what it is, i just get so bored of people. My best friend suggested that maybe im still not over my ex, but i doubt thats it as i dont really care about her at all anymore. Anyway, If anyone has any sort of advice or maybe an experience like this, I'd love to hear it. I need help. I need to fix this. Thank you for reading it btw.