LGBT My parents think that I have a sugar daddy or secret sex partner

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  1. RedGoober4Life

    RedGoober4Life New Member

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    :squint: Every few nights I go to a car meet or meet up with a group at Denny's/Panos/Wherever. Last night I was supposed to detail my friend's Lotus Elise. Actually it was getting a turbo kit and I was going to detail it while he did that during the middle of the night.

    Well I had been suspecting that they were thinking I was going out and playing with a fuck buddy for the past two months. Last night my mom goes "OH, I want the address of where you'll be going"

    :ugh:

    I asked her why and she said "Well, I just want to know if anything happens to you where you will be."

    ...

    Which seems like she's just over protective. However...I said,

    "Just because I'm gay doesn't mean I'm a fucking whore"

    and then she started crying.

    And then I knew I hit the nail on the head.

    I'm not a whore though. :mad: This pisses me off. It's hard to convince people that you're not something when they have convinced themselves otherwise. It pisses me off that my parents can't even think of me as somewhat of an individual and not in terms of gay stereotypes.

    ...I don't even know how to go about this situation.
     
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    Maybe I'm not thinking str8, but she's just being herself -- over protective. I don't see where being gay has anything to do with it. Even if you were str8 :hsugh: she wouldn't want you to be whorin' around w/the girls.
     
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    RedGoober4Life New Member

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    She never did this to my brother.
     
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    Sounds more like she is just being the overprotective type...my mother was twice as overprotective for me as she was for my older brother. I don't think we are the only unique ones, I'm fairly certain some parent types treat their youngest ones quite differently than the older children.

    If this makes you feel any better, I am 20 years old and live in my own apartment a few cities over from my parents but whenever I visit them at their house they want to know where I am going and with whom. I went to a concert last time I was visiting and they had me write out on a slip of paper the home number and address of the friend I was going with :hsugh:
     
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    lol oh mothers.
     
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    Yeah, same here... everyone assumes that just because I'm gay and somewhat attractive that I sleep around. :rolleyes:

    As long as I know the truth, it's all good.
     
  7. Sam Gamgee

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    why didn't you just give her the address?

    :dunno:
     
  8. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    My mother once said to me in the heat of an argument, "you are a whore, just like your father". But that had less to do with the merit of the statement --which I will argue, bitches :squint: --, and more to do with her lack of points with which to argue, and then resorting to childish name-calling.

    I simply blinked a few times at her in silence before responding, "Yes, I accept your concession to this debate; I win. Good evening." And then I walked away.
     
  9. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    :mamoru: I should knock on your door one day....wearing black leather chaps, a red latex thong, and a black harness with adjoining nipple clamps; she'll love me.
     
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    RedGoober4Life New Member

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    Because I didn't go?
     
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    I havent gotten that in ages. However when she found out I went on a date I got 20 questions. :hsugh:
     
  12. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    We are to assume that you own these already?
     
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    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    Mostly... :coolugh: My latex thongs are black, not red.
     
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    you live at home? how old are you?
     
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    3...well i'll be 4 in August.


    I'm 19. And I don't run away from problems. I actually asked her if that was the issue. Then she said, "well, you know, gay people..."

    I was listen here, ma...sluts are gross and I'll never be a gay slut. Ever. And that fixed that. And my dad chuckled at the "gay slut" comment.
     
  16. Sam Gamgee

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    you don't look a day over 5
     
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    Oh snap.
     

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