The left one hurt going in. And yes, I lubed it up real good. I noticed some puss like stuff drooling out after I put the rings is, does this mean I'm going to die? Here's the link for a nice big pic of the ring from the site. http://painfulpleasures.com/xcart/customer/product.php?productid=2994&cat=3&page=1 I don't like the fact that it's tribal. The tribal part means absolutely nothing to me, I got it since it looked cool.