So here is the story, recently got married well oct of 05, wife and I bought a nice duplex in a nicer area of town, however it is unincorporated, meaning little to no city funding, meaning no street lights no curbs that kind of thing. we moved in january of 06 in march I was at work late didn't get home till around midnight or so. My wife was staying at her parents house because her dad just had surgery. She drove home at around 2 because I hadn't called her to let her know that i got home ok. I got up after she left let the dogs out but forget to lock the doors. Not even 15 minutes later i heard my screen door open and my storm door open. My two dogs went crazy barking and growling. I thought it was my wife so i called out and who ever it was threw both the doors open and took off. Called the wife wasn't her, so i called the cops they came checked everything out nothing was missing so just left it at that. few nights ago got out of the shower at around 1130 walked around the corner and there was someone standing on my porch which is raised off the ground looking in through the window. I ran and grabbed my AR and took off after him. never cought him. flagged down a cop couple of days ago to ask what the law states, and he said you have every right to defend you and your family if you feel that there is any threat to you or your family. which after all of this you can be damned sure that i will be shooting warning shoots and then to kill. If your still reading this this is the part that is the scariest to me. The first time I was driving my wifes car and the second time we had the other car parked some ways away do to a part the neighbors were having. I feel like someone is watching the house and knows when my wife should be home alone. What would you guys suggest, outside of the basic, motion lights and locking the doors and stuff. The wife is very anti gun and really doesn't want to learn to shoot.