We haven't even been together a month yet and I'm already starting to be unhappy. Here's the situation: The good: She's hot, when we actually do have sex it's great, we have fun together, we have mutual friends, she's not overbearing or jealous. The bad: Every time we hang out, kiss, cuddle, fuck, etc. it's because I initiate it. I ask questions like "If I were to DJ at a strip club would you care?" (I'm a club DJ now, not at a stip club though) She promptly answers "No". I ask "Does it bother you that I'm around girls all night at the club and they constantly flirt with me?" "No" Now my way of thinking is if you actually give a shit about your gf/bf you would care about these things. I'm really stuck in knowing what to do. I wear my heart on my sleeve and talk about everything. She KNOWS I will never cheat on her, I like her a lot, I'll never do her wrong, etc. because I've told her this. She hasn't told me shit. I'm thinking I'm just going to start acting like her and be completely apathetic and unaffectionate and see if she gets the picture. I spent two years with a girl just like this before and I've learned that the more you talk to them and ask them to be affectionate the less respect you get.