my mentality as far as approaching women. opinions please.

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  1. JaredRules

    JaredRules New Member

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    My mentality as far as approaching women is pretty unique in my opinion, tell me what you think. After a couple of years of being the "nice guy" and getting no where, i've thought about it, and wondered how I could stand out differently to make a different impression on women.

    For example, if I was being introduced to a girl, or walking up to talk to a girl, the dialog may go something like this:

    JaredRules: Hey, my name is Jared, what's yours?
    Girl: Kari, nice to meet you *shakes hands*
    JaredRules: Nice to meet you also, whats your plan for tonight?
    Girl: Oh, i dont know, my friends and i were at skinnies (bar) and decided to walk over here.
    JaredRules: Skinnies? only dorks go there.. *smiles*
    Girl: *laughs* its fun... sometimes... im not a dork!
    JaredRules: So, i guess i'll see you around?
    Girl: Yeah...
    JaredRules: *walks off*

    I always try to say something whitty, but in a playful way so that the girl has something to rememeber me by opposed to "let me buy you a drink!" like im sure many other guys have said to a particular girl. And many times if I see the girl out at the bar or even a grocery store, she'll remember me and come up and talk two and three weeks later. It's been pretty successful for me as far as meeting new girls. What do you guys think?
     
  2. antihero

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    i was with you up untill here... why are you walking off? are you so sure she will chase you? I dont recomend it. while its cool when it works, but the odds favor not walking off
     
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    yeah why walk off? ending it too soon, see where you can take it.
     
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    Yeah, the walk off is not so slick. Stick around, make more witty comments, and don't kiss her ass. Don't apologize. The basics - be proud fo who you are.

    Buying drinks is bad, so good thought on that. Personally, I like to say something like "So, aren't you going to offer to buy me a drink yet? What are you waiting for?" It'll get a laugh, and depending on how well you deliver it you will get some free drinks. Heck, I've gotten free meals.
     
  5. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    Most lines are cheesy and not recommended but check out this site where I've found some hysterical ones...and he's keeping track of his stats.

    http://linesthataregood.com/

    Lines such as:
    • Excuse me, have I fucked you yet?
    • Forget that! Playing doctor is for kids! Let's play gynecologist.
    • Hi, my name is {name}, I like peanut butter, wanna fuck?
    Or perhaps something more subtle:
    • I bet you $20 you're gonna turn me down.
    • The only thing your eyes haven't told me is your name.
    • (give the person a bottle of tequila) Drink this, then call me when you're ready.
    • Greetings and salivations
    Oh yeah...and why walk off?? Don't be affraid to ask for what you want.
     
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    Lines? The best lines are the ones that you come up with that are specific to the situation. Use your brain, it's smarter than most lines you can find on a site.
     
  7. Solus Emsu

    Solus Emsu ****** U N R A T E D ! ****** -----THAT'S HOW I RO

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    And I still want to know why the guy said "I guess I will see you around." :ugh:
     

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