I knew this girl from work. I had talked to her a few times at work, and one day i asked her out to dinner. She said yes, but when we arranged a date it turned into a movie. It went ok, but it seemed she really wanted to just be friends during the whole thing. I didn't ask her out again. That was about 2 months ago. The other day I ran into her and invited her over to my place for a hookah session. She happily agreed, and showed up that night. We had a great time (good convos and everything), and she invited me out with her and her roommates to a bar. We went to the bar, but I found her roommates incompatible with my personality. Im more of a stoner, and they were more into coke and acting like loud dumb bitches. The girl i went with wasn't like them really, but she could tell i wasnt having the best time. I was also really hammered so i wasn't being too social at this point. After that night, i left three messages over two days that she hasn't responded to. What could I have done better? Is one just fucked if you dont fit in with a girl's friends? Should i be persistant and keep setting up dates?