my girls ex has a huge cock

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  1. boosheet

    boosheet New Member

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    this girl that i am seeing has an ex that has a huge cock:bowdown:... he did some porno shoots... but never had them published.... whatever... but THIS guy has a huge cock supposedly... my cock... sad to say... AINT huge maybe average perhaps below average... i am already insecure as it is... but the fact that i have found out about this makes me even more insecure... its hard to live in somebody elses shadow... i mean she doesnt want to be with him... but i know shes not over him... but everytime she mentions his name i feel threatened/insecure..... i dont love the girl.... but i really do like this girl... but we are only dating... but if cock size does really matter... there is no way i can live up to this guy. i know alot of you are going to say that i am screwed because i am less endowed then this guy... either way... i want to know what do you guys think?
     
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    Stereo lol I don't know if I should say it

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    Have you had sex with her yet?
     
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    yes i have had sex with her... and its great... but she has never had an orgasm in her life... except when she pleasures her self.... i have made her come close.... that doesnt mean shit... this whole thing just makes me feel like less of a man... but maybe its just an insecurity issue... i have given other girls orgasms... but for some reason with this girl i feel insecure.
     
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    All I can say is, foreplay, take your time, learn what she likes, surprise her, show her you love her, be confident, etc.

    Size DOES NOT matter. (In fact, I would HATE a huge cock... it would hurt)
     
  5. Incog91

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    I'd say go beat this pseudo porn star's ass. After you kick his ass you will get over the insecurity about him being better because you will know you are superior, hence the reason he got his ass kicked.
     
  6. boosheet

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    HA beat his ass??? please.... i probably could kick the shit out of this guy...BUt as of right now... we dont have sex anymore because we are taking a step back in our relationship... we used to be boyfriend girlfriend.. but now we are back to just dating... she just got out of a relationship with this guy and she felt she rushed things... and she is not ready to get in to anything serious... so according to her "rules" she doesnt sleep with guy that she is dating.... even though we have had sex on several occasions.... even though some girls may say size doesnt matter... its just something hard to take... NO pun intended...
     
  7. Incog91

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    That's why you kick his ass, to boost your self confidence.

    fucking pussy.
     
  8. boosheet

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    sorry forgot to mention that it was a long relationship... on and off... but it was still a long relationship... 2.5 years
     
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    kicking his ass doesnt prove shit... and kicking somebodys ass just to improve my self confidence??? please! thats worst reason i could think of to fight somebody... my insecurities about myself in general arent all that bad... just on certain things... it is most prevelant when it comes to girls that i like alot... if it was a girl that i just had sex with on the side and didnt give a damn about her it would be a different story... but i like this girl... so i think about a lot of things and small things get to me... no pun intended...
     
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    get over your penis envy and realize that she's interested in you now, not him, and though he may have a larger penis, it doesn't make him a better lover
     
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    perhaps it is penis envy... shoot... i wouldnt mind having a larger penis...
     
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    also... not wanting to kick somebodys ass ... doesnt warrant an " i am a mature person award" ....but thank you for saying so.... i appreciate the compliment.
     
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    so over the course of a couple hours you have managed to go from bf/gf to just dating,strange
     
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    hmm... good point. why DID you call her your girlfriend at first, and then not?
     
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    so she WAS your gf, you had sex with her, and now you are just dating and NOT having sex?


    sounds to me like she is fucking the porno guy again and she feels bad about having sex with you at the same time.


    TRUST ME, WOMEN CAN BE EVIL!!! they are just as bad as guys but they are more careful about it.


    sorry man, but you need to go get a young hot chick to "date" while you are dating this other chick. (and when i say "date," i mean FUCK).
     
  17. TheUsualSuspect

    TheUsualSuspect And poof. Just like that, he's gone.

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    Women date men, not a penis. Get over it.

    Confidence will attract a woman more than a massive cock.

    Learn to play up to your strrengths and forget about the ex's penis. It breeds insecurity, which is your real problem.
     
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    MiseryIndex i never know why. i only know who. Moderator

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  20. boosheet

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    the guy doesnt live in the city and is out of town... and out of the country a lot... we didnt go form BF to gf in a few hours... we stopped being bf and gf after she came back from spring break in which she went home. Her family had just moved to that state and she had a lot of time to think about things because she didnt do crap all day. In the end we did rush things and basically just jumped in to this relationship. so now we have taken a step back in the relationship and are slowing things down.
     
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    you arent listening....


    let her ass go....you honestly believe she went home for SB and didnt do ANYTHING all day but think.




    BWAHAHAHAHA! keep tryin to get with her....you will find out in the end.
     
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    Honestly, size is secondary to skill. My ex was pretty big, but he sucked in the sack. My new b/f isn't as big, but he's amazing in bed, and I wouldn't trade him for anything. Bottom line, work on your skills, and then it won't matter how big you are.
     
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    she and i had gone on a small vacation before she left... she went home for five days. She doesnt have anyfriends there because her family had just moved to michigan. her grandmother is terminally ill and her mom is having a hard time taking it. SHe spent a lot of time with her mom and her family. so she didnt do absolutely nothing.
     
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    Wow, I see so many things wrong here. First of all, if she's not over her ex, then why are you with her? So you can begin to develop really strong feelings for you and she cen't reciprocate the same? I think ultimately that'd blow up in your face.

    Secondly, the size isn't always the most important thing. Some guys have huge ones and can't do anything worth a damn (from what I hear). You shouldn't be so insecure about the size of your penis. It's all about how you work it. Find out what she likes and what works for her and work on it. As long as you two are in sync, everything else should flow together, and size isn't that detrimental. :hsd:
     
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