Hi OT This weekend I brought my girlfriend to a friends family golf outing. Saturday went great, and we went to bed around 8 because we were tired from golfing. We woke up around 3 AM to the sounds of police sirens. By the time we were outside to watch what was going on, the police had already arrested some really big guy who was drunk as hell and starting fights. He was resisting arrest and screaming obscenities at the police. He also made a big jackass out of himself when he hurt his shoulder trying to get out of the handcuffs. Anyway, at some point while watching all this I turned to my girlfriend and told her that this was really amusing to watch because the cops were up against some pissed off bodybuilder. I noticed she had her sights fixated on him, and in a really enthusiastic voice and a smile all she could say was "he's a total badass!" She seemed to be captivated and attracted to this loser. Even after the show was over she seemed like she was love struck and in a different world and kept talking about how cool it was to watch that guy get arrested. So now i'm second guessing the girl i'm in love with and have been dating for 8 months. I've just never seen her so captivated by another guy, and a total idiot loser at that. It doesn't make sence to me because we are really into each other. I put on a bad boy image myself from time to time, but I do it just for show and she knows I'm kidding. I also remain mysterious, don't give in to all of her demands, and and all that other crap that women like in men. Am I thinking about this too much? What should I do?