my girlfriend is lame

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  1. Duc-2

    Duc-2 ... hip hop head ...

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    I need to vent, but seriously my girlfriend is starting to get to me.
    We just hit 6 months - shes a great girl we laugh a lot when we are together (to me this is essential) but lately, she is starting to get to me. She got mad when she saw my subscription to maxim (haha) and shes hates it when I even look at porn. Shes gets all worked up and cant stand the thought of me even busting a nut to porn. The meantime, shes telling me she wants to get fake tits and is starring at all the soccer players (recently went to a game front row, sat behind players bench) and telling me all the hottest ones. I just play it cool like ya whatever no biggie, Im the one nailing you. Im tired of this shit, but really I just want a girlfriend thats cool and I dont think its her. Im probably gonna break up with her soon, I am really gonna miss her big time, but her baggage is getting to be to much. No responses neccessary, just needed to vent and she how it looked written. Its the classic case, I feel like im getting nagged for the stupidest shit all the time and constantly having to defend myself for small things. I tell her, save the arguments for stuff thats actually worth arguing about. I mean she got mad two days before because I wasnt giving her enough kisses. I mean please, enough is enough! :o
     
  2. enigmatic

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    I see probably returning what she perceives as your own medicine. Why not just talking to her? In her eyes, you jerking it to a girl is her staring at a guy.
     
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    oh ya, she doesnt have a cell phone so shes always on mine. I was texting a friend of mine about how the TA of my geography class has some big tits. She was snooping around my texts, found this and got all pissed (again). Then I was looking at my text outbox, and there is one to her friend: 'Lets go out and find some guys with big you know whats ;) ' Like come on, intentional or not this is getting ridiculous. What a hoe?
     
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    Refer to my above post.
     
  5. Duc-2

    Duc-2 ... hip hop head ...

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    I agree its total revenge, but the real problem is the accumulation of these disagreements over the small things. It never ends!
     
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    :dunno: i don't care about guys i'm dating looking at porn, etc. as long as i still get some, it's :cool:

    now, deliberately looking at a girl in my presence is a :nono:
     
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    that's because you're just one-upping each other and not talking about anything.

    how old are you both?
     
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    Word to that. Its just plain disrespect
     
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    Im 22 shes 20

    We are doing that, and I suppose this is how I have made it seem in my posts. But the issue is bigger.. we do talk, and I find its me doing the majority of taking disrespects and not letting them get to me. I mean, her telling me she wants breast enhancement, I know what that means! She is craving attention she wants people to stare. Im so past all that, I mean if she wants to be an object so be it, I sure as hell aint gonna wait around.
     
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    or she is hung up on the porn thing and she thinks that's what you want...

    Make sure you have brought up to her how serious the issue is so she realizes it (unless you are so far past it that you just don't care). She may not be really hearing you when you've brought it up.
     
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    Fray, I think your right. I am a bad communicator, I just end up pointing fingers and yelling. She just saw the porn on my comp yesterday. She has wanted big tits for a long time now.
     
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    girlSSS!! :(
     
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    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Why does this thread not shock me in any way anymore especially when ages are mentioned...and of course this very subject was just brought up in a thread and the TS deleted it :squint:

    Want my real opinion? She's 20 years old and you are 22. Sounds like she's not even close to ready to settle down with you or anyone and she's an immature brat. She loves attention and is going to get it when you aren't around.

    If you want more than that, dump her. You've only been dating 6 months, which trust me, it's not that long. Let her go get her fake tits to show off to all theguys with big "you know whats"
     
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    AHAHA no shit, but shes cools hot and fun. I sure as hell aint settling down with her (duh). I guess im just looking for answers to keep it going and pushing the envelope. Probably not a good idea but I was hoping to set myself up with some prospects first but it hasnt happened yet. Im thinking its because I have a girlfriend and its giving me an excuse to not get out there an meet new ones even though I try ( with the idea of prospects in mind)
     
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    yup.

    it's not serious when you call your gf lame. if she meant a lot to you, you wouldn't call her bad names [not saying lame is that bad, but still disrespectful]
     
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    okok i know what i gotta do

    /thread

    whats everyone doing in here on a friday night anyway geez
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    what're you doing in here?
     
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    chica&buddies Active Member

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    :rofl: since you asked. i'm at work :dunno:
     
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    :rofl:
     
  20. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    Work at 1am that sucks, what do you do for work?
     
  21. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I'm sitting here watching Batman Returns because my bf passed out on me once we got home and I am awake and bored. :dunno:
     
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    :o i have 2 full-time jobs... either i'm in the OR o/n or i'm at the dog daycare.
    tonight, it's the latter. 13 hour shift :mamoru: i'll be here till 8am folks. :o
     
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    :(

    wake him up :naughty: ;)
     
  24. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    Operating room? :o
     
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    yes :o

    i care for humans and doggahs. :mamoru: i prefer the latter tho :o
     

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