and she won't listen to me she lives in her grandparent's house with her mother and her great aunt. her mother is addicted to pills and sells them. same with her aunt. they are constantly 'ill' so she's waiting on them hand and foot, to the point where they feel justified waking her up in the middle of the night to perform little tasks, even though she has to be at work at 8 in the morning. Now i just found out that her great aunt is having her pay $400 per month in rent, even though the house is fully paid off. is this not fucked? My girlfriend already has to deal with Diabetes and this isn't making shit any better. How can i get her to listen? Whenever i try to tell her, she just brushes me off and chalks it up to family obligation. now that i sold her my car, she's getting called on by all her shitty family members to do menial tasks, without gas compensation or anything. i'm just a little exasperated because she comes to me complaining about these things, i tell her what she should say, and she never listens.