FRK my girlfriend has a foot fetish

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  1. Capicu

    Capicu New Member

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    ok i don't know where to put this and i feel it's a little weird so im putting it in here.

    here's some background on myself. I'm a 21 year old male. and i have a foot fetish that i have never admitted to anyone. female feet lol. i love it. I've been scared to admit it.

    A "fantasy" i guess of mine is to have a girlfriend who is into it as much as i am.

    Well my current girlfriend, after almost a year of being in a relationship, tells me she has a huge foot fetish. For her own feet. And girl's feet too.

    She had told me before about some guys she dated that had a foot fetish. She told me her last boyfriend used ask to suck on her toes and she said it tickled. Now she comes out admitting she has a foot fetish. legs too. Now i find out her favorite type of porn is legs and feet. And she's been asking me to rub her feet and suck her toes and all that good stuff.

    I've gone along with it, and been enthusiastic about it BUT i haven't really come out and said i have a fetish for it. I've told her i like her feet but i've never come out and said how much i REALLY do lol.

    its not that i don't feel comfortable with her, i've just been scared to admit it. I have a collection of porn (no surprise there) and most of it is feet fetish. I don't know what it is i guess i have some irrational fear of being made fun of or something for liking feet lol
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :ugh: What do you have to be afraid of??? She loves feet and you love feet. Tell her! If anything she'll freak out with happiness.
     
  3. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    Exactly, you guys can join forces and <3 feet together. :bowdown:
     
  4. RougeOgre

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  5. Bubba Atlantis

    Bubba Atlantis New Member

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    I totally understand this feeling. I think it is one of the hardest things to deal with. We have been so brainwashed by society as to what is appropriate and 'normal' that we are scared to admit to what we like for fear of rejection or ridicule. There is nothing anyone can say here that will be able to change that fear for you. This is something that you need to deal with on your own. My suggestion would be to just get it out there. What is the worst that happens? She laughs at you? Big deal. I mean yes, I know it will hurt and that really sucks, but in the overall picture it means little. If she does not laugh however, think of the great possibilities you have. As others have mentioned, I suspect it will be more of the latter. Remember she has a foot fetish as well. She had to be brave and tell you about her 'abnormal' interest so it is time for you to reciprocate the trust and love that she showed and let her know that you totally understand her interests and it is your fetish as well.

    And just so you know, Foot Fetishes are the most common fetish. I always love telling this story, but there is a reason why it is so popular. In the brain, body parts are associated with specific parts of the brain (we will just leave it like that for simplicity sake). The part of the brain that controls arousal with the genitals is actually right beside the part of the brain associated with feet. Therefore, it is very common for there to be an overlap of those two regions in the brain and thus associating arousal with feet.

    So, don't fret, you are not as 'abnormal' or 'weird' as you think you are and I am sure your gf will LOVE to hear about your interests. After all, she wants to be with you and share her fantasies...it is obvious the affection she has with you.

    :wiggle:
     
  6. Lovely Atlantis

    Lovely Atlantis Luscious Lovely Lady!

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    hey you! Quit stealing my piece of trivia that I taught you from my cognitive psych class! :p
     
  7. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    COME OUT WITH IT TO HER ALREADY!!

    You could be too happy little fetishists together! You have to imagine she had to comeup with just as much courage as you to come out and trust you with the fact that she's into Feet and legs.
     
  8. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    :dunno: it's relatively common psych knowledge now that the proximity of the two areas in the somatosensory cortex can have cross talk.
     
  9. razi

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    go buy her some incredibly sexy shoes and tell her already.
     
  10. curt698

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    So, I'm not really that into feet other than some toe sucking and whatever. For some one is into feet do you like to get foot jobs or just jack it while looking at feet? Just curious what about feet gets you going.
     
  11. Unknown

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    Oh man, I couldn't have said it better myself! Being a foot fetish guy also, I can understand you being a little scared to admit that but like Bubba said, it's almost starting to become a "normal" fetish to have. Plus I can understand being scared to admit it on your first date or what not but after a year of dating and her coming out and telling you she loves feet, what is there to be scared of? I'm just wondering. I'd be so happy I wouldn't know what to do with myself! Just think of how happy not only you would be for finding the "fantasy" girl but also how happy she would be! Don't be scared man! If you both are in a loving relationship and she has the same fetish as you, she won't laugh or make fun of you! I personally think it will only improve your relationship together!

    There are many different types of foot fetish guys. There are a few that like toes, some who like the soles of her feet, and others who like the arches. I'm one of those guys who doesn't single anything out and I like it all! :mamoru: Just like you mentioned toe sucking, giving massages, and getting a footjob are just some of the things guys that are into feet love to do.
     
  12. JordanClarkson

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    You're just afraid to allow yourself to be that vulnerable. But you're missing out on having a really special, deep connection with someone. Personally I could never pass that up. I think things like these are meant to be shared, not to keep to yourself. She did open up to you. Maybe a part of you doesn't believe her. But it's a pretty common fetish.
     
  13. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    i have a foot fetish! :wavey: :h5:
     
  14. peoplescar

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    i loooove feet... especially in some heels
     
  15. curt698

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    Just a silly suguestion but if you both love feet and your scared to come out and say it, why don't you just worship her feet the next time your together and let her know that way. Obviously some one that is into to feet is going to give good foot, right:dunno:???
     
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    Apparently one of my areas is deaf.
     
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    So did you ever tell her?
     
  18. nosaj

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    I know a woman with a foot fetish. she's a toe sucking foot playing with feind. I never asked if it was the same for her with women.
     
  19. DaFreak963

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    Like everyone else has already stated, if she has a foot fetish what seems to be the problem. Even if she didn't you've been dating long enough for you to tell her about it without her freaking out. I told my ex-girl about my footfetish after 6 months and it was great after that. I was able to do anything I wanted with her/her feet and she loved it alhtough she didnt have a foot fetish to begin with.
     

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