my girl wants to go to florida with her ex

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  1. Capicu

    Capicu New Member

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    my new girl wants to go to florida with her ex.

    we've been "together" for less than a week and we've been dating for about a month.

    she says its for his mom's wedding. i say its bullshit.

    im thinking of kicking her ass to the curb. now.
     
  2. Cerridwen

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    Total and complete bullshit. It's disrespectful to even think about that. I'm sure you can do better ;)
     
  3. GABOS

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    you could quite politely ask for the invitiation for the wedding, or where it's going to be at/what time, etc, in case you would need to get a hold of her.

    That would be a safe way of checking the legitamicy of the claim.
     
  5. Capicu

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    ^ its too funny of a situation.

    the time they would go is when we have a week off.

    we both go to city universities, and her ex does too. so we all have the same week off. in december.
     
  6. Twostep

    Twostep OT Supporter

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    Abort NOW.

    I've been through that shit before. It most likely means she still has feelings for her ex. There's no reason she needs to go to that wedding.

    And what about sleeping arrangments? How long will they be gone? Nothing good will come of this and you will always wonder what the hell they did together...gtfo.
     
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    title should be My girl wants me to slap her upside her head
     
  8. OoOlAlA

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    nothing good will come from the trip. I am pretty much positive they will be sleeping together. I say drop the relationship now, they still want to be together. There is no reason for her to go otherwise.
     
  9. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    well, that was a short relationship

    on the bright side, you can't do worse

    fish in the sea, etc.
     
  10. theaznfunk

    theaznfunk B-boy fanatic

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    QFT
     
  11. timberwolf

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    I'm curious how she asked you this.

    Doesn't she realize the seeming impropriety of such a request?

    Also wondering how long have they been broken up for. Was he the bf just before you?

    Though I would most likely still introduce her ass to the curb.
     
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    :nono:
     
  13. PF123

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    thats shady and scandalous :nono:
     
  14. Kinks

    Kinks Sup. OT Supporter

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    affirmative, soldier. she sounds dicey.
     
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    thats a giant alarm telling you to get out, obviously she is still completely attached to her ex bf and you are either a rebound or a way to get him jealous, there is a lot of other shit going on between them and you are being used as a tool by her, it happens all the time, gtfo!
     
  16. Elf

    Elf Save vs. Death

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    Since you got the same week off, ask why she don't want you to come with? I mean with something that far off, you think she would think that you guys are still together, and would love to have you there instead?
     
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    ditch her while its still early. sounds way to sketchy
     
  18. dew

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    kick that bitch to the curb!
     
  19. keleko

    keleko yes, he is

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    she's lying

    rape/spit/kill - you know the drill
     
  20. timberwolf

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    Ex-bf might be the one inviting her as his date...
    under the pretense...
    "my mother really liked you...she still thinks we're together..."
     
  21. Yail Bloor

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    I wouldn't kick her to the curb...yet

    I recommend making yourself unavailable and ignoring her calls. How long until she leaves?
     
  22. Barton12

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    Get out now...if she's that shady to ask something like that a month into your relationship...kick her to the curb.
     
  23. PocoDiablo

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    HUGE red flag. If she cared about you at all, the thought would never cross her mind.

    Imagine, if you will, for a moment you telling her the same thing - that you were going somewhere with your ex. How do you think SHE would take it?

    Damn right. She'd dump you.

    May I suggest you be mature and adult-like and tell her that you are looking for a woman who is loyal and trustworthy, and the very fact that she was thinking about spending time with her ex clearly makes a point that she's much too immature for an upstanding male such as yourself.

    DUMP HER.
     
  24. Falconer

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    She shouldn't want to go to Florida with her ex.
     
  25. Rodthrower18

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    fuckin :werd: gtfo b4 you get attatched to this one BELIEVE me you don't want to deal with the shit that comes from trips with an ex, visiting an ex, or "close friend from a long time ago", the moment you hear any of that fucking bullshit fuckin get as much head, anal or watever the fuck you like from her and deep 6 the "relationship" when uve had ur fill, is it a dick move ? YES!! Is it better than being her fucking patsy ass chump? You bet your fuckin ass it is!!!!
     

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