Well me and my girl have been together awhile. And getting kind of bored of regular sex. She and I both agree that we want it a little rougher. But Im not quite sure how to do this. All I really do is a bit of teasing while making out, like pulling her head back by her hair while making out, then slowly lick her outstreched tongue, while I still hold her head back by her hair. Do that until she begs me to let her get closer. Im just looking for tips on how to make it a little rougher. Im not talking like BDSM or whatever, just some playfully rough things to do during or before sex.