So a few months ago I told you all about my girlfriend. She was studying abroad in London and went to a few dance clubs. Turns out she was grinding on guys and shit. If you were paying attention back then you'd know that this did not fly with me at all and I completely chewed her head off about it. (Before all the women chime in, please, take the time to imagine your man in some club grinding on a bunch of sweaty horny women.) Anyway. We split up for a few weeks due to a lot of problems, not just this one. (I was able to get her to see the error of her ways and to agree that this was unacceptable behavior for a woman in a committed relationship.) Well, here it is, months later and she's back in Colorado (I'm in LA) visiting her family for the holidays. Tonight she and her best girlfriend go to some techno club with a bunch of her friend's friends. I have no idea what this group consisted of. Males or females. Whatever. To make a long story short, prior to her leaving she asks me if its okay for her to go. I tell her that she doesn't need to ask my permission to do anything and as long as she isn't out grinding on guys and shit I'm okay with it. Anyhow, she stays out at this place until like 3:30AM and sends me a text message on my phone that she's going to IHOP and then going back to her friend's house to sleep over. She sends me another text at 5:45 to tell me she's going to bed. I bite my tongue, simply text back "goodnight" and turn my phone off. I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around this. Is this okay? I mean I said that I didn't care if she went out at around 9PM. Didn't really expect her to stay out until 5-6AM. Call me uptight and old-fashioned but I wouldn't do that and I feel kind of disrespected. I'm not saying shit because I really don't want to cause WW3 on Christmas Eve, but I'm not liking this at all. What do you all think?