my girl and I are looking for a third, but not just for NSA

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  1. drewzilla

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    how the fuck do we go about this? :eek3:

    we thought we had found somebody perfect, but she's just got too much baggage. we're looking for a girl to basically date, we don't just want a threesome buddy for here and there. we just really can't figure out were to look, we're thinking craigslist but there isn't a mw4w section other than for NSA.

    so OT, where would you look for a second bi chick that you want to have more than just an NSA relationship with?
     
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    some dating sites have people looking for that.

    one that comes to mind is OKCupid.com
     
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    signed up at okcupid but it doesn't seem to offer that, lots of spam bots IM'ing me though
     
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    Try Adult Friend Finder. I'm almost positive you can find singles looking for couples there and despite the way the site is advertised, it's not just people looking for casual sex.
     
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    If you're looking for a serious third I wouldn't imagine craigslist would be the place to look. Check what the people over in FS have to say about the topic because they all have alot more experience with it. I would think that if you're looking for a third you should go about it in the same fashion you would if you were just looking for an SO with the exception that you are making your altered intentions clear near the start.
     
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    Wait, like a threelationship?
     
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    i cant even handle being in a RS w. one girl. good luck to him :noes:
     
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  9. drewzilla

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    a thruple :rofl:
     
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    I saw a tv special about this once. Both chicks were like 300lbs and ugly as homemade sin.
     
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    get a friend of your girlfriends.
     
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    we keep all this between us, none of my friends or hers know. which makes it even more exciting :naughty:
     
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    Why?
     
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    Meh, we're both pretty clean cut professional people, but we've got our other side that really only comes out when we're away from our friends and shit.
     
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    So you want something serious but at the same time keep it away from your friends?how is this not about sex only?
     
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    we arn't looking for a second wife man. my friends don't come along when i go on a date with my girl, it isn't any different if it's with two girls. we just want a second girl to come out with us sometimes.

    and it really isn't hard to keep it away from friends, on valentines day we brought a girl home and she stayed over.. roommates didn't say a thing
     
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    so to get this right, you want a friend to hang out with you two that can also join in for the fun...good luck as i've never heard of that situation before other than polygamy.
     
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    basically


    we kind of found a chick, but she's just got so much baggage it's annoying as fuck. really hard to plan anything out too cause of her situation
     
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    well anyone know a dating site with a couple 4 female section other than AFF? we checked out AFF but kind of iffy about it, really want more than a fwb.
     
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    I can't imagine trying to handle 2 chicks on a regular basis...
     
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    Again AFF is not just for sex.

    And if you really want to argue semantics, a "friend with benefits" is exactly what you're looking for.
     
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    I'm on AFF right now, only girls around looking for couples are (for the most part) stating obviously that they want NSA
     
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    "for the most part"? What do you expect? Do you want to find a website where everyone is looking for exactly what you want?
     
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    there are like 10 females looking for a couple within 20 miles of us
     
  25. ForgottenSpiral

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    Again, do you have a better option? I never said it was a sure thing. It's a fucking dating site for Christ's sake. :rofl: It's hard enough for people looking for normal relationships.
     

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