My GF told me she loves me,but not in love with me..

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  1. Lak3r4Life8

    Lak3r4Life8 New Member

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    It really hurt my feelings.We have been together for 7 and a half years.I think she wants to break up with me.:wtc:We have had sex only once this new year.And when we did I couldnt get hard because all I think about is what she told me,fights,arguements,etc.:sadwavey:
     
  2. ST33LR4T

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    7yrs...people change. i ended a 7yrs relationship for the same reason. we were young when we hooked up and both of us changed along the way.
     
  3. Lak3r4Life8

    Lak3r4Life8 New Member

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    we were 19 then.
     
  4. BiffHenderson

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    Wow, that's rough after 7 years. Look on the bright side...you weren't married and had no children.

    Hang in there.
     
  5. Ahh that really sucks. Maybe it's not as exciting for her? Often the "I love you but I'm not in love" feelings come when things get a bit boring or usual... Try coming up with something nice and original to do, and try not to argue or fight on that day.. Maybe things will get better I hope so for u.
     
  6. Muricane

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    Chances are she meant that as either a break up line, or to warn you she will be breaking up with you.






    I used that line once. :hs:
     
  7. gibhunter

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    7 years and no ring? No wonder she wants to dump you.
     
  8. jbuckle

    jbuckle New Member

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    If yall were 19 when yall started dating why aren't yall married by now? There seems like there is more to the story then you are telling us.
     
  9. ST33LR4T

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    i was 18 and dated a girl for 7yrs...we broke up...no biggie it happens.
     
  10. Jeff Merr

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    Sounds like shes getting bored of things, have you tried anything to spice up your relationship?
     
  11. JordanClarkson

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    If you list arguing as a problem, the relationship is doomed.
     
  12. Ncognito

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    damn.. that really suck..

    hows the communication flow going?? is there anything thats holding you two back??

    talking to one another helps.. i doubt you'll find what you seek in these forums.. but hopefully it will help some..

    i'm currently in a 5+ year relationship myself.. and i'm only 22.. though it has been rocky.. i've manage to hang in there..

    if you can see yourself with her in another 20 years.. definately try to work it out.. if not.. let it be..
     
  13. Jaccordan

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    I've seen her pics and ive seen yours :sad2:

    i also seen this comming

    goodluck
     
  14. Filmboy44

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    my ex told me the samething...

    they dont' know what love is man...sorry yuo have to live with taht, I did...but it gets better

    they realize what they had at one point....don't worry
     
  15. JordanClarkson

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    I was in a 7 year one too but I was the one that fell out of love. Basically she wasn't the person I imagined her to be in the beginning. I tried to make it work but it took a hell of a long time to realize the mistake I made.
     
  16. KateyKet

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    I agree.....Im a completely different person from when I was 19, my interest, goals, and everything just changed so much in that time. I think that has a lot to do with it.
     
  17. Trblmkr

    Trblmkr Tap that Ass

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    Look on the bright side... there's always a chance for you being her "fuck buddy" :)
     
  18. KateyKet

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    Not really, thats only good if there is no emotional attachment.
     
  19. chlywly

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    Well if its been 7 years and she doesnt want to work on it then move on as soon as you possibly could and get on with your life.
     
  20. jeff2577

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    Beat her to the punch and move on. After 7 years if she doesn't love you, you are both wasting each others time.
     
  21. two30v

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    I just broke up with my ex after 4 years, she used the same line on me.

    If things dont work out, Keep your head up dude everything gets better.

    Just remember Everyday is a new day and one step further to being happy again.....
     
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    I agree ... if you love her soo much why haven't you proposed?
     
  23. poncepr64

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    why don't you ask her whats wrong
    sit down and talk
     
  24. I Pwn Noobs

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    :owned:

    u should just move on with life man
     
  25. jonno

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    dump her. find someone that appreciates you more
     

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