SRS my gf says I only want her for sex

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  1. CharlesMNeo

    CharlesMNeo New Member

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    Frickin my gf got pissed at me today because she feels like I only want her for sex, which is kinda true. Sure we do other stuff but she says mainly i just want to have sex with her and she is unhappy about that.. I'm 19 years old and I think that this is completely understandable for a boy my age, how should i deal with this crap.. haha thanks
     
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    Well first of all you have no right to be angry at her for saying that because you just admitted it's true. Sure, it is understandable, some guys are just like that. I think she'll be able to decide for herself if you're worth it or not. What should you do? If you honestly like her, then start showing her she's more than a vagina.
     
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    im not pissed, im saying yes a large part of our relationship is sexual for me, but is that really such a big deal..
     
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    Well, for some girls it is because they get used to meeting guys who just want them for sex. It probably gets old after a while.
     
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    It sounds like her needs cannot be satisfied by a 19 year old. She's looking for someone more mature, with more depth. How you take that is up to you.
     
  6. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Dude SHE'S NOT A PIECE OF MEAT!! She's a person. If you don't want to treat her like one, you deserve whatever comes to you.
     
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    why not find a girl that you're actually *into* and then bang the bejesus out of her instead of the one you're with now.

    Solves your problem, and hers too.
     
  8. Original

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    Oh well :dunno:

    You win some you lose some. No need to settle down for a more serious relationship yet if you don't want to, so move onto a new girl and keep on livin :hs:
     
  9. B4 I FU R U 18

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    lol
     
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    Tell her to pipe down and put out more...
     

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