cliffs: gf is porker, how do i convince her to lose weight without sounding like a jack ass. my gf and i have been dating some 3+ months now. i've noticed that she's getting bigger and bigger. i think she's 5'7"@150lbs. she's getting too fat for my tastes. i am not attracted to her and i want her to lose weight and eat less. last time, i bought a small bag of oreos and i saw her munching on it. when i woke up, the bag of oreos were gone. when i asked her where it went, she said she ate them all. another time, we were at a restaurant and she ordered a plate. i ordered a plate too. her plate came first and she started eating before my plate came. 5 minutes later, she finished her entire plate before mine had arrived. how can i convince her to lose weight? (i don't have time to take her exercising) no, i don't want to stay with her because of her mind. yes, i acknowledge that i am a jackass.