my gf is a little priss in bed

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  1. CharlesMNeo

    CharlesMNeo New Member

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    all i ever get to do is missionary, and sometimes it seems like shes too lazy to even get on top. She won't let me do it from behind anymore cuz it hurts her.. and like she wont even let me try. I told her we can try doggy again and I'll go hella slow and stuff and can stop right away if it hurts, but shes just like no no no it hurts. Its so frustrating, and I never get blowjobs anymore, like ever.
     
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    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    have you communicated your frustration in an adult manner OUTSIDE the sexual arena? And have you talked about why she won't do these things or even try?
     
  3. CharlesMNeo

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    I have and she just says it hurts.. and being a good boyfriend im not supposed to hurt her. and she doesnt really like giving blowjobs, so I thought what the hell as long as Im gettin sex.. but it would be nice to get one every now and then anyways
     
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    sounded like you were married for a second
     
  6. BradUF

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    I can understand her not wanting to do a thing or two. But everything thats crazy. My ex gf would not give blowjobs but would do anal. Crazy isnt it?
     
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    I'd say some thing's but i'm afraid those who know I post here would find out :[
     
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    sounds like a few of you guys girlfriends dont really give a shit about making ya'll happy.
     
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    from behind usually hurts me. its not unheard of. :hsugh:
     
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    you arent getting fucked right then/ arent wet enough / arent lubed enough
     
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    hahaha the op just described my situation too. sucks ass..
     
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    negative on all accounts.
     
  13. CharlesMNeo

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    yea sometimes it hits the girls cervix or somethin, so it hurts? i dunno, is there a way around that..
     
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    slight modifications to positions help, not going so deep. instead of doggy, do it standing with her bent over the bed or something.
     
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    I'd leave someone over sexual incompatibility, no question. Relationships are about giving someone what they can't get on their own - part of that is emotional security and part of that is sexual relief. I'm not interested in only getting 50% of the benefits of a relationship.
     
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    Hmm.. You know what. It sounds like she doesn't like pleasing you, to me. I bet, if I didn't absolutly love the look on my bf's face when he orgasms, or how i make him feel, then I probably wouldn't want to give blowjobs. I have no desire to do that with any other guys..

    But i'm not much help, because I think I probably just really like doing that.

    SO this post is a big NEVERMIND
     
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    Why don't you ask her what she would like you to do to her and then see what she'll do for you in return. Maybe she needs to be pleasured.
     
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    If you're hurting her from behind ("doggy style") then you're either doing it wrong, or have'nt gotten her aroused enough to want it from behind and the pain that comes with it that contributes to the strength of orgasm she has (read as "you're doing it wrong"). I always hit the cervix.., it's just how you do it.
    Try putting her on top of you, you on your back and her straddling you with her knees on either side of you and her laying down on your chest. As you push her onto you with your hands on her hips, she's naturally inclined to pull off of you.
    You'll have to shift about a bit to get into the right position that allows for full depth of penetration, but instruct her that, with her on top, she controls that aspect. You'll find that this position allows you similar depth to doggy style, increased indurance, and additional/increased stimulation for her and you as you'll be able to go faster, stimulating her more and thereby, getting her more into the mood of some pumping action.
    The girl has to come first.
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    god why isn't she putting out? you def. sound like someone I would be infatuated with.
     
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    I(22) had the same problem with my ex(19), where I'd have sex with her in any position, and after 5-10min. she would say that it hurts. Pussy was tight though, like, too tight that it took me a bit to get in there, longer than past girls. But I'm not with her anymore due to that and some other drama reasons. With a 28year old now, and she takes it like a champ, even when I'm fucking the shit out of her. :naughtyd:

    Cliffs: Older women FTW
     
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    Sounds like the description of my bf's ex. After 5 mins she was done & said it'd hurt if he kept going, didnt ever want to give BJs (I was the first to ever give him one), only did it one way, etc.

    Seems like your gf doesnt care about your pleasure, only her own. Stop doing things she likes, because it goes both ways.
     
  23. CharlesMNeo

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    eh to the people who are sayin try an alternate similar position, she refuses to do anything that puts me behind her.. and yea maybe she just doesnt care about my pleasure.. wtv i have a feelin this relationship is gonna end soon cuz i just havent been happy with it for a while
     
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    quoted for the truth :bowdown:
     
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    it may be the truth but i've been single for 6 years :eek3:


    .. thankfully haven't been dry for anywhere near that long :rofl:
     

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