So me and my g/f have been together for over 3 and a half years now and things for the most part have been great. But lately she's been getting on my case about everything. She keeps telling me i've changed and that i'm not the same anymore. Well duh, we've been together for a long time now, and over time people change. I can't help who i've become. She tells me that I don't talk to her as much as i used to (on the phone and face to face). Sometimes there's just nothing to talk about, and im starting to hate talking on the phone, to anyone, not just her. I say that you should say what you want or need to and then hang up. I'm not gonna sit there and be like sooo what else, soooo what else. That's just stupid. Tonight we went out to dinner and I was watching the Virginia Tech and Maryland game on one of the tv's at the restaraunt. So i was making conversation with her every now and then etc. Then she started on her speil (sp?) of me not talking and i'm like well not like you said a whole during the whole dinner (which she didn't, she responded with a few words to watever i said and then said nothing else). I'm like you didn't make much conversation, she's like well i had lots of things i wanted to say but you don't really listen to me anyways so wahts the point?! OMG is what described my feeligns at the point. Iono, just don't know whats with her sometimes. At that point i was like watever and we just got in the car 'n drove home in silence, haven't talked to her since, which its been like 7 or 8 hours and we always talk before we goto sleep if we aren't stayin with each other that nite. I always feel like she turns everything against me and that im the one that needs to apologize. I hate having that feeling and i always cave in, in the end cuz i hate the silent treatment crap and i'm not much for fighting or anything. I'm a very passive guy, and it takes a lot to get me mad and to actually start yelling or what not. I usually just listen to whatever a person has to say then walk away. Dunno, i don't see the point in being mad about things for an extended period of time, i mite not wake up tomorrow and then what are ya gonna do. Its over and done with, get over it. I really odn't expect anyone to respond, but anyone else experience things like this in their relationships?