My current g/f does not want to orgasm, ever. I've tried to get an explanaton out of her that I could understand but even after having a few conversations about it I still don't understand why she doesn't want to cum. Whenever we get hot and heavy, she stops me before she reaches orgasm. I'm sure most guys wouldn't care but it really bothers me. Best I can recall from my conversation with her, she has a "control issue". She stated that she doesn't want to let go of control (or maybe didn't want to lose control) and she would have to lose control to have an orgasm. I don't know about you but that just confused the fuck out of me. Does anyone understand what she's trying to say? We have sex pretty frequently regardless of that fact and she says she still has lots of fun so I don't get it. I mean if a guy friend of mine told me that he doesn't ever want to cum while having sex, I'd give him crazy eyes. That's like fucking blue balls torture for a guy. Any OT girls like this or anyone had a girlfriend that felt the same way? I just want to tie her up one day and force one out of her.