My buddy is in an odd situation and he was asking me for help, so I figured I see what the Vaginarium has to say about it... He has been dating this girl for about 2 years now and graduated from different school that were in the same area (they met in college). She is from the area were they went to school and his home town is about 8 hours away. Anyways, to keep the relationship going after college he got a job in her home town. He moved 8 hours away from his family and the majority of his friends. The issue is she is not reciprocating. Her parents told her that if she lived with a man before marriage they would disown her. She works crazy hours, so during the week when she comes over, she pretty much walks in the door, eats and goes to bed. Then on the weekends they see each other for maybe 4-5 hours total. She is telling him that she does not want to move in since her parents will disown her, and that she feels she is choosing him over her parents. Yet he moved 8 hours away from his parents to be with her. Then with the few hours a week they spend together, she tends to blow him off to hangout with her friends. Yet he gave up the majority of his friends for her. From what he was telling me the other day, if he makes plans, he has to drop them otherwise he might not get to see her at all that week. I told him that if she does not make the same compromises within 3 months, to leave her. What do you guys think?