my friends girlfriend wont stop texting me

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  1. victimizati0n

    victimizati0n New Member

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    im kinda in a situation here, and im not sure what to do.. but sometimes she will text me and ask me if im comming to a party, then when i say i cant she will ask why, then it gets into "oh well if that girl ever hurts you i will kick her ass, i love you buddy"

    now usually after that point i wolnt say anything, but like im in no way flirting with her, i just reply back to her text.

    this started happening like a week ago, and ever since then is when my friend has been acting weird, like not answering his phone when i call, etc.

    im not sure if she said something to him about me that pissed him off, or not.. but i think im missing something here

    i dont want to lose a good friend because he is pissed off at me because his girlfriend texts me

    so what the fuck should i do??
     
  2. demosnat

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    Call him and offer (over voicemail i guess) to forward the texts to him. My guess is, that if ANYTHING happened (which it might not have) that she said you were coming on to her.
     
  3. victimizati0n

    victimizati0n New Member

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    :dunno:

    she doesnt seem like the person that would do that.. but you know women

    he is well aware that im in love with this one chick though
     
  4. prolifics

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    there's no reason for him to be pissed off at you unless you have done something horrible, like ninjaing the last slice of pizza. don't worry about it.
     
  5. KindlyCuddly

    KindlyCuddly Irina Lazareanu

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    i don't see why those such texts would be inappropriate. i'm betting it's unrelated.
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Here's a novel thought...
    STOP ANSWERING THE TEXTS :uh:
     
  7. victimizati0n

    victimizati0n New Member

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    this is my thought, he is busy with work and everything, so im not sure.
     
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    Yupppp

    i hate it when people bitch n moan about texting, then immediately respond back... some people really are retarded
     
  10. victimizati0n

    victimizati0n New Member

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    im not bitching about her texting me, i just didnt want to lose a friend because of it.

    and im not going to get all shady, and quit responding to her texts so she goes and tells him something to get him pissed off at me for no reason
     
  11. JordanClarkson

    JordanClarkson OT Supporter

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    i'm betting that those responses you sent her may have seemed flirty even if you didn't mean it to be...
     
  12. Leaden Grudge

    Leaden Grudge OT Supporter

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    so tell her that her sending you texts is making you feel sketchy with your friend.
     
  13. victimizati0n

    victimizati0n New Member

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    "yeah" "thats cool" "nice" "yeah shes a bitch"

    does that sound flirty to you?
     
  14. demosnat

    demosnat New Member

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    You can here whatever you want via text.
     
  15. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :ugh: :hsugh: are you 16 or something? That response can't be serious.
     
  16. MattThom01

    MattThom01 New Member

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    oh jesus, grow the fuck up. You're not a 16 year old girl. Your friend can NOT get mad at you if you tell her to stop texting you, don't respond to her texts, or both.

    I suggest you tell her to stop texting you, and if she continues to do so, don't respond to them.

    If she wants to be stupid an continuously text you, that's her problem to deal with, not yours.

    And if a friend gets mad at YOU because his gf is texting you, and you aren't even responding to the texts....no big loss. You wouldn't want a friend who overreacts like that anyway.
     
  17. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    i don't follow your reasoning. isn't it shadier to respond?
     
  18. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    just be really nice and she will lose interest

    ignoring her will make her want you more
     
  19. kumar_a

    kumar_a Well-Known Member

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    that would be the correct course of action if you were still in high school.
     
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    ww_Crimson New Member

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    My best friend's ex-girlfriend (they just broke up) used to say stuff like that to me all the time. Her and I were/are really good friends and she always wanted to make sure the girls I was talking to she "approved of". Her approval didn't really mean much to me, but it was her way of saying "I just want to make sure you're not wasting your time" type thing... She'd give me a hug every time she saw me and we flirted a little bit here and there but there was never any sexual tension at all between us.. Just a mutual female friend. Unless you're not providing us with some details I think you're overreacting.
     
  21. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Ok, so what would the mature course of action be now :hsugh: Where's your advice?
     
  22. victimizati0n

    victimizati0n New Member

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    no, im not fucking 16
     
  23. victimizati0n

    victimizati0n New Member

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    if she was sending me flirty texts, and i was flirting back, then yes, it would be shady, but this isnt the case...
     
  24. victimizati0n

    victimizati0n New Member

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    this is basically how it is..
     
  25. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Then stop acting like it. If you ignore he texts then she will stop sending thiem. If she for some weird ass reason cried about it to her bf and he got mad :)ugh:) then he's a dumbass as well.
     

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