My friend with benefits said i was acting weird all weekend...

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  1. SovietRussia

    SovietRussia What? You pooped in the refrigerator? OT Supporter

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    how can i spin that into a good way. i probably was. she said we should go back to 'just friends' on tues. we had a drunken threesome on fri. hung out for a bit on sat and today. i probably was acting weird yesterday and today. how can i spin it into a good thing? because i want more, and she doesnt.
     
  2. Pringles

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    if shes made the mental decision that she doesnt want you, you can't break that and the more you try the more it seals it in her head. I'd say you leave her alone and move on. Odds are she will run into some bad relationship and be calling you in a month or two.
     
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    probably acted too boyfriendish :mamoru:
     
  4. awlewis

    awlewis New Member

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    Weren't you the guy who was too scared to kiss a girl because you had a mustache?! Give yourself a pat on the back. 3some ftw.
     
  5. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    i would completely blow it off
     
  6. bandwagon

    bandwagon Copy/Paste

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    Are you following strict FWB rules?
     
  7. Schproda

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    Be her friend and appreciate it. Did you force her into the 3some? Was she sober? Did you make her feel like a sleeze? She has something rattling around in her head that you need to get her to talk about.
     
  8. giapia

    giapia Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you re

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    it sounds to me, like she's ready to move from fwb over the threshhold to something more. if all you want is a fwb, i'd say leave or else she's gonna get hurt
     

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