Backstory: My best friend and I have known each other for about 12 years. We went to middle school and high school together, stayed close through college even though I left the state, and have seen each other as often as possible now that I have moved back to our home state and we currently live about an hour and half apart. I live in Tampa, she's in Orlando. For reference because it comes up later, my brother lives in Alabama and his best friend lives in Orlando. The four of us have always been very close since we're all about the same age. Two weeks ago I had plans to drive to Orlando and visit since my brother would be in town. He was flying into Orlando so the four of us could hang out over the weekend. I also invited down two other friends of ours from Gainesville (2 hours from Orlando). I couldn't leave Tampa until Saturday afternoon because i had to work Saturday morning but I made plans to meet up with them early evening. My brother's best friend works in a bar there so we were going to go and hang out there (he had to work that night so we'd get free drinks). Well my best friend calls me when I'm almost there and says she's at Disney with my brother and his girlfriend and wants to leave so could I turn around and come pick her up. I told her that I was already way past Disney and the other two people from Gainesville were waiting for me to come pick them up. She then tells me that I should come get her because she wants to meet up with her roommate and go to a pub crawl that night. I'm like, "WTF? We had plans to go to X bar together as a group!" She says she's dead set on going to this pub crawl and thinks I should come back, pick her up, take her home and then go do other things while she hangs out with her roommate. I said it was too out of the way and she can have her roommate come pick her up since they would be hanging out that night. The other two friends didn't know their way around Orlando and they had been waiting for me to come meet them so I wanted to get to them quickly. She finally says, "Ok don't worry about. I'll talk to you later." I went out with the other friends that night and she went on her pub crawl. I wrote her a message the following Monday saying I was bummed we didn't get to hang out but I hope she had fun. No response. I called her the next day. No answer, no call back. I've tried to call her a few more times the past two weeks and she hasn't gotten back to me. I sent her another message yesterday telling her I hope she's ok and if she's mad at me for something I hope she decides to just talk to me about it. No response and I know she read it. Everyone else thinks I should be mad at her for blowing us off since I drove all the way there to see her, but I understand that things come up and I can see her another time. But now apparently she's pissed at me? I don't get it. What should I do now?