my friend is 19 and still hasn't gotten any

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  1. prowler09

    prowler09 New Member

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    my friend here is 19 years old and a freshman in college. he is not so good with the ladies. he hasn't gotten to "third base" and he is starting to chafe. what kind of advice could you guys give him to help him out. hes not a bad looking guy, he just cant seem to seal the deal.
     
  2. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    maybe he doesnt want to :dunno:
     
  3. prowler09

    prowler09 New Member

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    lol, no. but he doesnt have an account

    yes he does want to actually, he is stading here with me waiting on replies
     
  4. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    Why would someone assume such a thing? I mean, didnt you run to the internet for advice for a friend to get laid when you were in college?:hsugh:
     
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    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    well, there is your first problem.
     
  6. Justin Niggalake

    Justin Niggalake New Member

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    your friend is putting the pussy on a pedistal
     
  7. FlaminYon

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    well if you swing that way, i'm sure you could do him a favor and fix that right now....

    but on more realistic terms, just get him involved in lots of different activities at college, get him to go to various clubs and parties, and get him off the damned computer and off the books to go meet people. It both takes his mind off of not having someone, and put him in contact with lots of other people who might have a future with him.
     
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    Its like some sort of greek goddess, pussalaia
     
  9. Felix

    Felix Its good to be me.

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    Get him started on a few sluts to build up his confidence.
     
  10. Devilish

    Devilish Remind me AGAIN

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    If he's really that desperate, pay for it :shrugs:

    Otherwise, when the right one comes along then so will the big bang
     
  11. evolution

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    i know someone who didn't lose virgnity until 27 and that was with a whore
    :(
     
  12. Abomb

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    just losing your virginity wont build up your sexual confidence


    you really need to get it on a consistent basis to be satisfied/confident

    wam bam thank you ma'am still wont make your friend confident
     
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    He should probably date a girl for a little while first. That way, he won't be (as) nervous as if he just got some poon from some random woman. Instead of having to act like he knows what he's doing, he can give her a chance to try to make him feel comfortable. And make sure he knows that while he's in the minority, it's a surprisingly large minority; he shouldn't be embarassed about it.
     
  14. drewplusbrig

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    here is a 3 step method that never fails

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  15. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    :werd: assuming the implication here is that the poster has gotten laid, he should know what to tell his friend. Obviously this isnt the case :mamoru:
     
  16. Abomb

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    touche.

    maybe they are both waiting for teh advice hahah
     
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    :hsugh: this advice is for you...isnt it?


    Start talking to people, join clubs...go to frat parties
     
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    two words.... bunny ranch... or date rape.. the second being the cheaper option of the two
     
  19. Bush77

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    Tell your friend to chill the fuck out. Tell him not to worry so much about it and go out and have a good time. Go to a bar, club, party, etc. (he's in college they should be everywhere) have a few drinks and just relax and be sociable.

    When talking to girls don't let them know you want to get in their pants because you won't fucking get any (unless they're big whores). Just be sweet and flirty. If they are playing hard to get, play along (i.e go talk to other girls)! If they're genuinely not interested then just bail... Experience will help you deceipher between the two.

    Be confident even if it means being a little showy. girls will be far more attracted to a talkative person with a smile on than someone loning it in the corner.

    As a last resort get really hammered and go for equally drunk chicks. girls with no inhibitions are not picky... believe me. Then work your way up as you build confidence. :bigthumb:
     
  20. PocoDiablo

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    Man, have your buddy understand that there are resources out there that can help him, such as dating advice sites and books, as well as movies.

    If *I* were you, I would go rent/buy the movie "The Tao of Steve" and have him watch it. On a very basic level it addresses some issues that most beginners have, which is probably that he's acting too desperate.

    The next, an in my opinion MOST IMPORTANT, issue is that he needs to learn to qualify and pick only women who give him signs of interest. I cannot tell you how many guys I give advice to about how they want to get with their friend of 5 years, or this chick who won't talk to them, or some chick who has a boyfriend. You MUST pick a woman who is single and into you. Period. If you are with a woman and after 5 minutes there is not some sexual chemistry, then move the fuck on!!!

    Then there are any other number of dating sites that can help him. Search my username and I've posted them before.

    This thread has some good ones: http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=2246039

    Personally, I really like the advice that this guy Doc love gives: http://www.doclove.com and http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove (not all articles here are his, FYI) and you can buy his Dating Dictionary book on eBay for cheap (search "Doc Love System").

    But many of the other sites will give you the same advice - picking up women is like learning to ride a bike - you have to fall down and make a lot of mistakes, and you have to learn from someone else who knows how to do it.

    I'm always looking to write a new article on my site, too, so have your buddy write me a good long email at my site www.Friendzoned.com and I'll put something together for him.
     
  21. Slowta

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    if your friend can't get laid in college...he is not straight
     
  22. Nimoxp

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    low confidence and anxiety can screw your sex life for all your life. Medication for anxiety disorders can help
     

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