First thread in this forum. Basically, my ex and I dated for about 4 years total. (HS-College). We went to different colleges, she broke up with me, then decided that she needed me in her life. OK, fast forward half a year, she dumped me for the 2nd time during our college stint in the summer again! It was obvious something was wrong w/ her, she wasn't affectionate as much and wouldn't really talk to me about certain things going on. I brought it up to her the DAY we were departing to go our seperate ways to college. (5 hrs apart). "Are you sure you want to be with me? You don't really seem like you give a shit anymore." Crying ensues, a lot of it. Constantly apologizing, etc. This was almost a year ago, and for some reason I'm not over her in the least. I've had the opportunities to be with other women, but I immediately compare them to my "forementioned former", and instantly they are not worthy for me to be emotional with them. Sex is sex, i love to have it, but I can go without it. I'm not sure if she is with other guys, but all I know is that she really wants me to visit her at college. Always asking me to come down, for us to sleep together, etc. I'm having mixed emotions over this, I sincerely love her, but I feel that reverting back to her is halting me from moving on. I can't get her out of my head Thanks in advance.