My first booty call

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  1. minkajane

    minkajane New Member

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    I lost my virginity at 18 to the guy I later married. After four years of marriage, we're divorcing. He moved out a couple of weeks ago. We haven't had a decent sex life in over a year now and I have a lot of pent-up sexual energy. So I gave my friend a call. He's had the hots for me as long as we've known each other, and the attraction is definitely mutual. He's coming to visit this coming weekend, pretty much for the sole purpose of sex.

    I feel slutty and empowered and turned on all at the same time... :hsd:
     
  2. BradUF

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    This does not sound like it will end good. I bet he wants a relationship.
     
  3. moses

    moses OMGWTFBBQ

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  4. minkajane

    minkajane New Member

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    If it ends up we both want a relationship, great. But neither of us wants one right now (we've talked about it). We're just having fun right now.
     
  5. MattThom01

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    keep it up and one of you will get attached.
     
  6. minkajane

    minkajane New Member

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    Has nobody here ever had friends with benefits before? Why can't sex just be sex sometimes?
     
  7. giapia

    giapia Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you re

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    sex is sex. if you see each other only for sex, it can work. however, if you hang out with each other while you engage in sexual relations--somebody always ends up getting attached. the only way to avoid this is to only meet up for the purpose of sex and as soon as the sex is finished, you leave. the only time it's okay for fwb to hang out is if there are other people present, or they have decided to stop having sex with each other.
     
  8. ArthurPewty

    ArthurPewty New Member

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    What you need are rules:
    1) No calling the next day.
    2) Staying the night is optional.
    3) Don't give the other person cash on their birthday.
     
  9. BradUF

    BradUF Guest

    Yeah, and it does not work. One person always gets attached and when one gets a boyfriend/girl friend. Shit hits the fan.
     
  10. Vixxen

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    because it gets complicated. although it really depends on the people involved
     
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    Vixxen New Member

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    be careful. it's fun for awhile, but...
     
  12. copperkali

    copperkali Mrs. Nicklk

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    :bigthumb: I lost my virginity at 18 too...and i married him too. Still married though.
     
  13. giapia

    giapia Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you re

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    i think #2 is bad, unless the person is seriously inebriated or can't drive due to some other type of incapacitation..and i need an explanation for #3 :mamoru:
     
  14. minkajane

    minkajane New Member

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    It's from Seinfeld, when Jerry and Elaine decided to sleep together. The first two rules they came up with together. The third rule was added when Jerry didn't know what to give Elaine for her birthday because of their special status and gave her a pile of cash with a bow around it.
     
  15. ArthurPewty

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    Just curious, did you actually think of coming up with "rules" for this guy?

    EDIT: Glad someone caught the reference.
     
  16. minkajane

    minkajane New Member

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    We don't really have any official rules as of yet, but we both understand why he's coming and that it's a purely sexual thing. Neither of us is interested in a romantic relationship with anyone at the moment. We're both at the same place in life and this situation works for us.
     
  17. keleko

    keleko yes, he is

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    any SFL OT OP need a fwb? i know i could use one....
     
  18. ArthurPewty

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    Well, at least make sure that he doesn't eat your roommate's piece of cake before she gets home from acting class.:nono:
     

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