my gf is my last priority. my father died and i need to take care of my mom. he was 59. im 24. my gf got mad at me the day after my dads funeral because my ex gf who was clsoe to my father for 3 years came to the funeral and then to my house. i didnt want to hear it andi hung up on her. then she got drunk the next night and talked to me shit faced on the phone and i didnt care. i am dropping her the next time i see her. but is this normal. i feel distanced from her after my dad died. nothing else matters in this world other than to be with my family and my clsoes friends and to remember my dad.