my EX.

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  1. dimebagey

    dimebagey New Member

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    i didnt know where to come for advice so i thought i'd give this a try. its been over a year since i broke up with my ex girlfriend. she is now hanging out with one of my old friends.. me and this kid were very close together in the past.. but we have stopped talking. now i find out that my ex and my old friend are hangin out together . do i have the right to confront my old friend saying its wrong for him to hang out with my ex? what should i do? i get this feeling i cant do anything bout the situation. should i just let it go and get over it?
     
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    04JETTA OT Supporter

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    tell your friend your opinion and then that's it
     
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    dimebagey New Member

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    how should i say it?
     
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    you don't talk to your ex or your friend anymore.... they are no longer part of your life, and you're not part of theirs.


    let it go.
     
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    she is your ex, why do you care..
     
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    dimebagey New Member

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    i think this is the right way. i heard a quote that meant alot to me before but i cant rename is. somthing like theres a reason why people didnt make it to your future. thanks for this reply... i think i just needed someone to tell me this.
     
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    dimebagey New Member

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    not only is she my ex. she is hanging out with my old best friend. it hurts double... i dont think u understand.
     
  8. KMAzz

    KMAzz OT Supporter

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    Old best friend who you no longer talk to. Hes out of your life and so is the girl. They will both tell you to F off at this point so just move on and find other things to do to keep you mind off this stuff until another girl comes along.
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Nope. It'd be one thing if you and him were still really close. IMO it's a betrayal in a way...but at the same time not because you both lost touch with one another. Plus it's been a whole year since you and the ex broke up. Basically I'm saying you need to just keep it to yourself and move on, obviously she has.
     
  10. You're not over her.

    You stopped talking, not really friends anymore.

    Big fucking deal, get over it.

    No, not your life, get over the girl.

    Ignore it and move on.

    Damn Right you can't.

    Read my previous statements

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  11. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    If you haven't been with her in over a year and you've lost contact with the guy, why do you even care? Move on and let it go.
     
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    are you kidding me?

    you really want to call up someone you don't even talk to anymore and tell them to stop hanging out with your Ex? thats absolutely ridiculous.

    you need to get over your ex already
     

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