My ex g/f claims to have had an abortion today...

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  1. beckington

    beckington New Member

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    With my child...

    Should I just take the benefit of the doubt and believe her?

    When she told me she was pregnant she didn't seem to care enough to call me and casually told me over a series of text messages. Then she was saying things such as:

    "i'll take care of it, don't worry gtg bye"

    "you don't care about me anyways, don't worry about it"

    "we can't have a baby when you don't want to be with me"

    :ugh:


    Why the fuck do girls have to fuck with me like this?

    She was shady about the whole thing, and I'm really thinking it was a ploy to get me back or to atleast show her some attention/sympathy.

    BTW: SHE LOVES DRAMA. This is why I'm kind of sketched out about it.


    :wtc:
     
  2. Kalypso

    Kalypso New Member

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    I smell bullshit. "I got pregnant and had an abortion pretty much before I ever told you about it, and I told you in a casual way, and I didn't seem serious at all" is a lethal, albeit common device of the drama-seeking manipulative whore to cause problems and get attention. I've seen it 3 times, two were proven to be false and the third everyone knows was false, although the confession was never obtained.
     
  3. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    who cares. its over now. too late for you to start caring now anyway.
     
  4. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    There was no baby. Tell her to produce a receipt for services rendered or STFU and stop lying.
     
  5. beckington

    beckington New Member

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    No she told me she was pregnant weeks ago.

    Everyday we'd casually text and she'd then go into a tangent about how shes getting an abortion because i don't care about her.


    When I'd ask if she recieved an abortion yet, she'd flip out and say "if thats the only reason you're talking to me...then leave me alone"

    On monday she told me she had a doctors appointment today (wednesday).


    She texted me today. "procedure done, all done. no more adam and lauren's messup"
     
  6. beckington

    beckington New Member

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    I agree with all of you. I guess the real question is towards the bottom of my post.


    Why the fuck do girls need to do this to me?



    She's going out bar hopping tonight.... :ugh:
     
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    beckington New Member

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    word. fuck that ho.
     
  8. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    A) Because she feels powerful. She's affecting your life and emotions and she's not even present most of the time.
    B) She feels inadequate so to compensate she makes you feel inadequate and in the process, she becomes blameless.
    C) Because she's mental
    D) All of the above

    Regardless, she's out of your life now. I would cut off every last bit of contact with her. No texting, no "quick chats", nothing. Just darkness.

    Then go find another hot lil honey to help ease your pain. Demosnat is single again. :naughty:
     
  9. fray

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    And wrap that shit up this time. :nono:
     
  10. beckington

    beckington New Member

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    she was on depo (the shot).

    i thought it was impossible for her to get preggers. oh well.
     
  11. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    1. She probably wasn't even pregnant and just doing that bullshit scare tactic to see how you'd react
    2. Who gives a fuck?
    3. Stop answering her calls/texts
     
  12. MattThom01

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    Until she actually HAS a baby, don't give her the time of day.

    IF she had a baby, get a paternity test.
     
  13. jonno

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    she's fucking insane
     
  14. enfiniti

    enfiniti How firm thy friendship ... OHIO!

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    she flushed all the proof it was yours down the hoover. Dont worry about it and move on
     
  15. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    alcohol (blood thinner) and abortions are a no no. that, plus the codeine and the antibiotics..... and how one generally feels afterwards.... she'd have to be one tough bitch to hit up the clubs that night.
     
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    lauren Active Member

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    i doubt there's much of a 'standard' across the board, in regards to anything.
     
  17. Pringles

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    now read this answer because it will take a while to sink in and for you to apply it.

    It's because you let them.
     
  18. squid

    squid braap

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    You don't go barhopping after you have a procedure where your insides are sucked out with a medical vacuum, you got sit at home and whig out on painkillers and self-loathing. There was no abortion.

    Ask for a receipt so you can pay her back. Maybe that will get her to trip up. Aquire confession, then cut the bitch off cuz she sounds nucking futs.
     
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    She's lying. I'd be willing to bet if you caved in and told her how much you loved her and her foetus, there would be this sad breakdown around a spontaneous miscarriage not long after.

    re: partying after - I've known legit situations where this happened. you generally sleep off the aftershock during the day.
     
  20. Viper

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    If the Vag were a room, I'd tell you to frame this and put it on a wall.
     
  21. Falconer

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    Yeah she was probably lying. Those txt messages are attention seeking txt messages, especially that first one. The formula is:

    Some huge news that would obviously affect you + dismissal of you not caring + casual termination of the "conversation"

    It's designed to evoke strong emotion in the receiver, and it usually does (unless you know the game she's playing).

    The second txt you listed in similar. It's designed to make you reply with "but I DO care about you!" and then she has the upper hand and would probably reply with "no you don't" or "prove it." Either way it's bullshit cuz she's playing games.

    Same for the third txt. She wanted you to say "but I DO want to be with you" or something.

    Dude this chick is nuts.

    On of my exes did shit like that all the time (because I was retarded and let her).

    It's good that you're not dating this chick anymore. She's nuts and you probably shouldn't talk to her anymore at all.
     
  22. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    :werd: Stop allowing her to manipulate her and she'll stop doing it.
     
  23. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    :uh: Please don't ever have sex again until you educate yourself. Birth control does not make it impossible to get pregnant. Hell, some people still get pregnant after getting fixed (a very small percentage). Abstinence is the only way to be 100% sure that you won't knock a girl up (I'm not suggesting that you do that, just stating the facts).
     

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