My Divorce Story

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  1. Arkaybee

    Arkaybee New Member

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    I started writing this when I was going through the divorce but stopped because it was too painful. I recently read a story that inspired me to finish it. I had a couple requests to post it up on here for everyone to read. I thought the story was pretty interesting and hope that someone finds it to be a good read as well :hsd:

    YES IT IS A GIANT WALL OF TEXT.


    Cliffs: I got divorced.

    Oh, names have been changed to protect the innocent...and guilty.

     
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    HOLY SHIT!

    im sure its a good story but just do not feel like investing the time.

    hope all is going well.
     
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    It happened over a year ago. All is going great now :big grin:
     
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    Good lord, broseph what a clusterfuck... WAAAAAY too much time invested into someone you obviously didn't truly click or were compatible with... Sorry to hear and glad its over.

    Brother, I don't want to pour salt on the wound but to me it sounds like things were really building up over a long time for her. She either was really holding a lot of anger and resentment back at you, or she was holding back a lot of guilt from doing something you didn't know..... Either way, it's that long repressed internal resentment that made it impossible for her to "be with you" even if she may have wanted to somewhere in her mind.....

    Believe me, you're MUCH! better off.
     
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    In for later.

    My divorce story so far is a 100 pages in a word document and growing. (that's about 25K words)

    Gonna publish that shit when I get it done.
     
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    I can has a copy?


    My only regret is that I didn't write all this down when it was happening. I know there are lots more details but I don't remember them :o the ones I do remember are very fragemented and I can't put them in the puzzle where they belong
     
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    Oh I totally agree. It was just a matter of time with her. I didn't write the story to be sad, but just as a series of events that happened in my life.

    I am glad I am no longer with her because she did have lots of issues that she needs to figure out before she will ever be happy
     
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    If I ever get it published, I'll give everyone on OT a free copy. :mamoru:

    Yeah, it's been 3 years ago for me. You'd be surprised how much you remember when you sit down and start writing. I was, like you, pressed to find details, but then as I started writing, things kept coming back to me. When that happened, I sat down and made an outline. I'm only a 3rd of the way through my outline.
     
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    Wow, that's quite the story. I'm glad that everything is going great for you now :hs:
     
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    I cried twice :wtc:
     
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    Just wondering, how long was the read?
     
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    Damn, bro...
     
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    half hour for all the details
     
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    Wow, she sounds like a immature girl with terrible role models around her.

    I'm surprised you ever married her in the first place.

    Yes, I did read everything.
     
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    She did a VERY good job hiding most of it while we were dating.
     
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    Holy shit man.. I teared up reading that shit. In my office.
     
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    I just finished reading it as well. Sucks that you had to go through all of that physically, emotionally, and mentally, but I'm happy for you now that you're way better off without her and much happier. :)
     
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    Damn, I read that whole thing and am so glad I did. I can't believe everything you went through with her and am so happy to hear you are doing well now. :)
     
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    wow, quite a story. How old were you when you got married? It sounds like you were both too immature to be married.
     
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    I know it's written from your perspective, but she sounds unstable and clinically insane...
     
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    I really feel like your story just reinforces one of the rules I have had since my ex. My ex's parents were divorced and her mom was her biggest role model. She grew up just running away from all her problems. After we broke up I vowed to never date someone again who didn't have a stable upbringing.
     

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