SRS My Dad...

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  1. weolracso

    weolracso OT Supporter

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    He just left my mom, sister and me... to go to Asia or someshit. my moms crying like hell. I really don't feel anything and don't know what to do.


    So the story is, for like the last 8 years my dad has been struggling with a serious gambling habit, he has supposedly gambled away 500,000 dollars in less than a year. He also has stupid urge to go to fucking china to bang stupid fucking prostitutes or someshit. He has also cheated on my mom like twice. My mom has constantly tried to help him quit gambling and has been supporting him every single day. Well today, he just left. He told my uncle to pick up his car at the airport and gave my sister and me a shitty ass letter explaining he still loves us. He didn't even have the guts to tell the family he was leaving. what a fucking coward.

    Well, I'm just venting. So I'm probably moving to california now... because that's where all my family is. I have to leave all my friends. Shits fucked up!
     
  2. Darketernal

    Darketernal Watch: Aria The Origination =)

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    Immediatly advice your mom to seek a reliable lawyer(or you do it for her)to seperate her bank account from that of her husband. She needs to legally protect herself from all the financial misery that will come her way as the creditors want to see money, everything legally has to point to her husband and not her. Your mom has to divorce and do everything legally to seperate herself from your dad in order to avoid the 500k debt that your dad left.

    So financially making sure everything off this debt is on the name of your dad and not pointing towards your mom is the first thing she has to do.

    I honestly hope not, but it might end up in her having to sell the house and file for bankrupcy. If it ends up in her having to pay the 500k, you will need strong financial advisors to split up the money debt over a very long amount in periods of years, in which your mom needs to work towards a bearable life and if not possible she might need to flee the country too.

    Now what your dad concerns, he's going to china but he's taking his addiction with him, so soon he'll find a casino and waste away the little money that he has, and the scenario might come up that he ends up coming home again.

    When that happens your mom must not take him back. This because she loves your dad so much that she's willing to go thru everything for him , but she must understand that your dad is a liar and is not the right person to spend her life with. She should divorce him as soon as possible, from here on its not her task anymore to save him from the gutter, he's had his chance he gambled and he lost.

    Here's a website for support http://www.thesite.org/homelawandmoney/money/creditanddebt/gamblingdebt
     
  3. weolracso

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    thanks
     
  4. civicmon

    civicmon got all my game from the streets of california.

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    I really have nothing else to add but what a shitty fucking guy.

    He should be shot on sight.

    Hop on a jet to Shanghai or Shenzhen or where ever he his and fucking lay him out on the middle of Nanjing Lu or some shit.
     

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