FRK my boyfriend wants me to be freaky... how do i start?

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  1. devildoll3584

    devildoll3584 New Member

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    My boyfriend recently told me that he gets bored in the bedroom quickly and that he is already getting bored with our sexual relationship. I've known from first meeting him that he is into freaky shit... but I'm not so much and we really haven't done anything like that. So I want to ask all of you guys.. what should I do? We already have a couple vibrators... one for pussy one for ass. And I know he wants to do anal still but I havent been able to take him yet, but I also want to surprise him with other things. Any ideas for me?
     
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    Step 1. Learn to adore teh cawk.
     
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    surprises wont do much you're better off just asking him what he likes
     
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    i adore his cock... i love to suck him off and play with his balls. im still stuck... i know what he likes but i want to be able to show him more than just the things he tells me to do
     
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    well unless yall just dont communicate well, then what he tells you is what he wants :dunno:
     
  6. Wolf

    Wolf No one plans to take the path that brings you lowe

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    milk his prostate. ;) Works everytime
     
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    1) Bring home a cute chick
    2) greet him naked when he comes home
    3) Talk dirty to him
    4) Like other said, ask him what he wants
    5) Watch porn with him
    6) Let him watch you masturbate
    7) Whatever you do, don't make it seem like it's work or you're just doing it for him...YOU have to enjoy it too
     
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    See I DO NOT want to bring home another chick. And he does want me to. It makes me really uncomfortable. I've had a threesome before, but it was with my best friend and her boyfriend. Now that it's my boyfriend that just doesn't seem cool. I'm going to try to talk dirtier to him, but we already do the other things. That's why I can't believe he is bored already. Thanks for the advice! Oh and how about toys and restaints and that kind of thing. What would be good?
     
  9. keleko

    keleko yes, he is

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    how do you start?


    IDB ;)
     
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    how do i milk his prostate?
     
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    Wolf No one plans to take the path that brings you lowe

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    Basically you stick a finger in his ass, bend it so it's pointing toward the front of his body, then press down and rub. That's the prostate. If you're rubbing it when he comes, it's 10x as intense. :cool:
     
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    make sure to trim your fingernails.
     
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    Cherryfire "If we believe obsurdities, we shall commit atroci

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    Start by dressing up a little for him. Roleplay. Is he into going to stripclubs? Meet him at home dressed up like a skanky stripper, complete with tacky heels and too dark makeup. Do a dance for him..then let him do all the things he isnt allowed to do with the "normal" strippers. ;)
    Or do the typical "school girl" thing...then have him dress in a tie and dress shirt, pretend to be your teacher or the principal, get bent over his knee and let him spank you.

    It doesnt have to be anything youre uncomfortable with. Just elaborate on what you already know he's into.
     
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    Cherryfire "If we believe obsurdities, we shall commit atroci

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    Awww..youre just saying that.. :o
     
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    NJGuy "Fuckmefuckmefuckmefuckmef uckmefuckmefuckmefuckm OT Supporter

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    Your doing fine. I love girls like you. Im confindent you will figure it out.
    Just help your fellow womens out and share your outlook with them.
     
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    Bend over and make him toss your salad. Something about having an ass in my face gets me.

    If that doesn't work, just back it up on him. Do some booty work on his cack, you know, like the rap video booty work. You can tell your bf to thank me later.
     
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    He loves licking my ass every time he goes down on me. I love it too! One thing we really want to try is anal, but it is always so uncomfortable for me that we stop. And unfortunately whenever he wants to try it I don't, and whenever I do he doesn't. Quite the predicament we have...
     
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    Ha! That's sorta like my boyfriend and I! We had anal sex before we had sex...so for awhile, I only offered him anal (since I was still technically a "virgin"). Then several months past, and we had sex. Now I say no to anal all the time, and yes to sex. Before I was like "anal anal anal!!!"...now I'm like "no!" Haha! To me...it does NOTHING though. Anal is strictly a guy's pleasure. I don't get off on it. I did it to please my boyfriend, and it worked all the time. I enjoyed it, but just never enough to make me ultra horny and orgasm.
     
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    Is he pulling out too far? Mabey if he kept it in and did short strokes instead of long ones it wouldn't hurt so bad.
     
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    Ghostaz0r With my ego, I can stand there in a Speedo, and be

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    Well we finally did anal and it was great! We started with me on top and facing him instead of him behind me doggy like always before. It worked perfect because I could control how far he penetrated me and there was no pain.

    Now my boyfriend wants me to tie him up, blindfold him, and do anything to him. What kind of things should I do? I have no idea...
     
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    Break up with him.
     
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    devildoll3584 New Member

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    thats kinda mean
     
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    Leave the room
     

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